I got the 'I'm not schizophrenic its just a word the doctors and I use to easily explain my condition'.
my ex is a tradie- he does plenty of cash work including selling thousands of $$ every year worth of copper and renting out the granny flat under his house and not declaring it. Has all the latest gadgets- iphone ipad Macbook air, brand new thousand $ bbq, takes the girlfriend on $600 a night away weekends etc. Guess I can't complain that he pays the CSA assessed child support each week.
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07-03-2012 09:32 #21
07-03-2012 13:03 #22
The only way around this process for the same situation would be for him to lodge an estimate of income, which you can then object to. If he has previously lodged an estimate which has been found to be incorrect you can ask them to reject it based on those grounds as well I believe. Either way, you will have an opportunity to object at any point when he requests a change to the assessment. Both of which will bring him under more scrutiny. However, as he seems to be a man of words rather than action, I wouldnt worry until such time as they notify you.
19-07-2013 20:50 #23Senior Member
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Is there any chance you could get him sectioned, my sil did in New Zealand last year to her ex, he was totally off the rails with bipolar and wouldn't take his drugs.
20-07-2013 07:09 #24
Gosh it was a surprise to see this old thread.
Update: my ex took his own life 8 weeks ago.
I was right. He was mentally ill. I was glad I didn't let him take the two youngest unsupervised as his psychologist suggested. It's been a nightmare time as his family lived overseas and I had to organise funeral and everything. He cleaned out every bank account and has massive debts but looks like he might have death benefit in his super accounts for the children so my solicitor is looking in to it.
I used to love him once and now I just feel sorry for him, me and the children who ave now lost their father at such a young age. He was 41. So sad.
20-07-2013 07:14 #25
Im sorry the hear this. Be kind to yourself and take things a small step at a time. Mental illness can be a terrible thing and sadly destroy many lives.
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20-07-2013 07:30 #26
Mental illness is such a devastating illness for everyone involved. Im so sorry for you and your children.
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