Diamond, you are so right I should have cut her out ages ago..I am a complete wuss when it comes to her.
I do know that she is a cow.
So thank you all, I wrote and gave her the idea of the women sit together ..and the men do.
But then she told me, that her bestie is doing the speech so she will sit there too..
Ok, I am matron of honour.. I asked her if it was just her bestie and she said yes.
She never even asked me. Oh well..so I have suggested her bestie sits up at the table and I can sit down with my other sister.
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12-02-2012 13:53 #32
Beryl, I feel a sudden illness coming on for you. I think it will hit a day before you are due to fly out.
Do you even want to go? How much $$ will you loose if you cancel? I would be doing it you know. She sounds like a serious piece of work and you don't need that stress and cr@p in your life.
If it's this bad now, it will only get worse when you get there. Don't do it to yourself.
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12-02-2012 14:00 #33
You are a kind and loving person Beryl. Of course how you choose to handle this is up to you. But you are so loving to a fault with family that treat you badly. If it were me I would be trying to get a refund on the tickets or at least using them to fly elsewhere and getting the money back on your accommodation, bc there is no way I could attend a wedding of a sister who was as dismissive and narcissistic as her.
After knowing everything that happened, then sitting you next to your abuser AND saying you are creating drama. WTF? I don't even know her and my blood is boiling for you
12-02-2012 14:54 #34
I don't how you do it Beryl, you are so amazing
If my father did what he has done, he wouldn't be in my life anymore.
12-02-2012 16:19 #35
She is being completely unreasonable. If she won't compromise, I'd cancel the trip.
12-02-2012 16:36 #36
Oh wow. That is revolting. I can't believe she expects you to be in the same room as him... let alone in that situation. Oh my goodness.
12-02-2012 17:38 #37
I really hope you don't go
She sounds horrible. You really shouldn't have to put up with that!!!
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