When a NCP has a certain level of visitation with a child, then the CP chooses to move away, thus lessening the contact the NCP has with the child, the NCP should NOT have to pay more because they are now having less contact with the child.
Talk about adding insult to injury - sorry sir, you don't get to we your kid anymore, and by the way, that'll cost you a bit more because you're not seeing your kid anymore.
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31-01-2012 19:54 #31
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31-01-2012 19:57 #32
AND, if a payer underpays, they have to catch up at the end of the year, or whenever CSA reconcile it. Totally agree with that.
BUT, if the payer overpays, too bad, so sad.
31-01-2012 19:58 #33
31-01-2012 20:00 #34
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31-01-2012 20:02 #36
AND mandatory DNA testing before CS can be claimed, to prove paternity. Not only if it's a requested, I mean every single case.
While this is not our case, as my DH is confident he Is the biological father of his children, I believe there are probably many payers pay g for children who are not biologically theirs. I know that this would cause a lot of unrest in families, and children would most likely be the losers in this, so perhaps it's actually a crap idea. But something has to change to ensure this doesn't continue.
Ok, I'll stop now
31-01-2012 20:03 #37
I would have liked it if my father paid...
My mum could have done with that little bit of money...
We went private to make it easier for him - one lousy payment... So back to CSA...
He paid my mum $5k and asked for the $11k debt to be wiped. I said to her to tell the CSA "no effing way". Sorry, but no...
I refused to see him after the age of 12, but he is still expected to pay and so he should. (there are reasons to why the visits stop, if you really must know - ask, but I won't share on an open forum.)
I feel so hurt for my aunt. She gets $6 a week for her 4 kids from their "father" yet he buys new car, goes on frequent holidays... that's not fair!
31-01-2012 20:07 #38
and deliberately increasing debts by borrowing money for assets to reduce payments should not be on. I know a few women that have literally starved so their child ate bc the ex didn't pay CS. All the while he had gone out and got a loan for a 50k car then had the audacity to deman a re assessment (and reduction of CS) bc he has more outgoing expenses. Too bad, if you can't afford a SS commodore and pay for your child don't buy it! Just as the mothers have to live within their means so should the fathers.
31-01-2012 20:07 #39
But surely if visitation changes because the payer moves so far away that they payee can't see the child any more, he should not be penalized?
The payee has chosen to move interstate and take the child so why should she also gain financially from that?
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31-01-2012 20:10 #40
CSA told me in a conversation about 2 years ago that if we (as the payer) overpaid, it would not be returned to us.
And $10 a month is an absolute insult to see mine trying to raise a child.
I also agree that the minimum should be increased.
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