By bad dream, I don't mean a nightmare about monsters or whatever... I mean something like your partner cheating on you or doing something that made you angry in the dream, etc.
Because I do. I end up kinda crabby and kinda wander around sulking to myself about what a jerk DP was to do that to me (he cheated on me in my dream last night btw... lol). I know it's stupid, so tell DP that I've had a bad dream and why I'm being a grump, and we laugh about what a knob I am to be irritated over a dream...
But HE did it recently too... I cheated on him is his dream (yeah, we're horrible people in our dreams... lol), and he was cranky the next morning. Not nasty to me or anything... just a bit of a foul mood that could only be explained by the dream.
Does this happen to you?
*BTW, this is kinda fluffy, not particularly serious. I don't need my dreams interpreted. I am pretty confident that DP is unlikely to cheat. I know I am unlikely to cheat. There is no fear, and I seek no advice.*
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26-01-2012 21:56 #1
Do you wake up in a bad mood if you have a bad dream?
26-01-2012 21:59 #2
Sassy... I'm the same. Could've written this word for word!! Haha. I like to tell DH what a jerk he was in the dream, we laugh and make jokes about it but I like to tell him I'm angry with him for cheating in my subconscious!!!
But I had a dream just the other might where I went to a hotel without him, and was drinking and getting ready to go out and party/hook up without him!!! Told him and he joked he was angry with me.
Makes us laugh cos we would never cheat on each other.
26-01-2012 22:00 #3
Lol yes! I don't mean to but yes I remember a dream when I was heavily pregnant with dd where he upset me in the dream and I was upset for a few days about it.
A few weeks ago I had a dream that my 9 yr old brother came in and punched me in the stomach while I slept (I'm currently pregnant) and dh saw it and punched the crap out of him. I woke up terrified! I was angry at dh for punching my brother like that but was angry at my brother too lol
26-01-2012 22:01 #4
It's kind of funny we get angry at them when it's OUR subconscious that is at fault creating the dream in the first place
26-01-2012 22:03 #5
Oh do I ever!! I always have very vivid dreams, as in every night. I often have dreams that dh is cheating on me or being seriously horrible and I will wake up so made at him because the dream felt so real, and he will just say to me "so what did dream me do to you this time?". It's a horrible feeling but it can be really hard to shake off.
26-01-2012 22:08 #6
yep, but i've only ever had one dream of dp cheating... other times it would be on massive fights with him and i'd wake up ****ed.
Not sure with dp though but he never really remembers most of his dreams... one thing that i find odd more is that we ALWAY have very random dreams the same night
26-01-2012 22:12 #7
I suffer from this too.
DH does a bit but not as much HOWEVER.... he does have night terror and if he is physical in his dreams he can be In the bed too.. EG the other day he was playing sport in the dream and went to swipe at a ball to stop it from hitting someone and clocked me straight in the ear.. My hearing has been so much worse since.. and the ear sore too.
26-01-2012 22:16 #8
Yep sure do ... and wake up in a rotten mood that is super hard to shake
26-01-2012 22:31 #9
Yes! Sometimes I'll dream of DH cheating on me and I wake up hating him lol
26-01-2012 22:42 #10
Lol Sassy, I do this all the time. DH thinks I'm such a weirdo. Sometimes I can't actually remember the dream, I just remember that I should be mad at him.
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