I've experienced a few occasions of sexual assault, the one which affected me the most was by a doctor. I now can't see male GP's, and have trouble seeing males in other professions too. I recently had to request a female dentist...I don't think anyone really knows this about me. Maybe my sister, but I can't even remember if I told her.
Hugs to you both Darkcherry & Nowwhowantspie
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26-01-2012 22:23 #11
26-01-2012 22:34 #12
Hugs to witwicky, dark cherry and whowantspie.
I realized I was bisexual at 19. After I was engaged to dh. Most people I'm close to know this. Although I've had limited sexual encounters with women I still identify as bi.
Looking back however I only have childhood memories being drawn sexually to females. Than in my teens I was only attracted to men it shocked me to realize I was bi. Dh is my only relationship I've had. Although I find more man attractive than women I only fantasize about women
My secret is im worried I only fell into a heterosexual relationship from social conditioning and because I had always dreamed of wedding, marriage babies which of course is easier for a heterosexual couple. As a little girl even I dreamt of wedding and babies husbands never were in the equation
26-01-2012 22:49 #13
Thanks to everyone for sharing. And hugs in particular to the ones who have disclosed experiencing sexual abuse. It is heartbreaking to read. Truly.
I actually posted in this thread the night it was created, but then I got cold feet and deleted my post - which I've never done before. My "secret" is nothing in comparison to some of the others shared, and you've made me feel brave.
I was a troubled teen and was involved in a violent episode that resulted in police involvement. I even moved in with my aunt an hour away to escape the aftermatch. I learnt so much that year and I have never truly forgiven myself.
26-01-2012 22:49 #14
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26-01-2012 23:39 #15
I have a girl crush on Lana Del Rey lol. Like a serious girl crush. I would turn for her!
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27-01-2012 00:19 #17
MiM, I hope you are able to forgive yourself one day!
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27-01-2012 02:28 #18
Witwicky- that's terrible! A male doctor? Wow, what a disgusting human being. I'm sorry hun xx
Little Pink Hen- that must have been a very confusing time for you. I can relate to you though. I think that's what sucks about being committed so young. No room for discovery.
MiM- I hope you one day forgive yourself xx
27-01-2012 02:42 #19
I was hospitalised with anorexia when I was 19. At my lowest point I weighed 39kg.
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27-01-2012 06:05 #20
The details if my past, its not really discussed beyond 'yeh my mum died and dad remarried a lady that wasn't very nice'. Dh knows all but I don't think other mates really do. my friends from when i was ten dont really get it cos they grew up with it without being old enough to understand iykwim. My sisters best mates knows, she was around enough.Noone but my dh knows about the s3xual abuse frommy step grandfather. My sister kinda does cos she was abused too but we don't really talk about it.
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