But now.....Holy Crap!!! Where have I been all my life???
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24-01-2012 18:15 #101
24-01-2012 18:27 #102
Sounds like you have an amazing marriage!
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24-01-2012 19:02 #104
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24-01-2012 19:10 #105
umm I don't think I would ever be comfortable with it. TBH brutally and awfully honest - I think if things got that bad I would rather just DTD - is that terrible.
My DH has always said he wouldn't care if I had s3x with anyone - as long as it was just s3x and I was honest with him. If I was up for it, he would swing for sure.
In theory I have no actual issue with, but I know I am too insecure and jealous and it would turn to sh1t.
I think ppl that do it successfuly and happily (like gen. happily not just pretending) must be really complete ppl in themselves and their relationship.
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24-01-2012 19:11 #106-
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i dont care what other people do with thier sex lives, as long as everyone is honest and safe.
and i like the same respect back in turn.
i dont believe we are meant to be monogomous
24-01-2012 19:14 #107
24-01-2012 19:18 #108
Very interesting discussion, i'm totally enjoying reading all points of view on this subject!
For me, i have done my stint of s3x for s3x sake, and i never found it to be all that fulfilling, sure it was fun, exciting, enjoyable etc but there was always... well an imbalance of expectations i suppose you could say.
With DH it just works, it always has right from the first moment we met, and i would not be interested in anyone else. I've got what i want and i *don't* want the complications s3x outside our relationship would bring.
I wonder if its a security thing. I have too many insecurities and i know if DH wanted to go outside our relationship, it would wreck my head wondering how I measured up iukwim. Maybe those of you that can handle it are just that bit more secure in yourselves...
For me its like saying gay marriage would ruin the institution of marriage. Like how What two people choose to do in their relationship has no bearing whatsoever on *my* relationship. Whatever works for you i say But open relationships are just not for me!
hmmmm that turned into a bit of an essay lol!
24-01-2012 19:20 #109
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