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22-01-2012 18:24 #31
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22-01-2012 18:28 #33Senior Member
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I am so sorry I didn't explain myself properly. She is not in prison she met him while he was in there.
I think her friend was going to go and visit him and she asked if she could go as well. Then she went back again and they started writing letter to each other, and that's how the relationship started.
She actually seemed very normal she had a job and a house (she ended up declaring bankruptcy with all the cost). She had previously been married. She was average looking. Average weight. Her parents had meet him and they said he was a nice guy and attended the wedding with some of his family too.
She used to visit him weekly but it got to costly so she now visits him fortnightly for 6 hours (there visitations must be different over there than to Australia)
No they are not allowed to have sex (although I am pretty sure some prisons do allow this) so it definatly would be an ivf baby and I assume they would pay for it
22-01-2012 18:43 #34
He's clearly never coming out of jail, and nor should he for the horrible crime he committed against an innocent person. I don't think it's the ideal situation either to parent a child he is never going to have a normal life with. A prison setting is not normal nor is it healthy for a child to be exposed to on a regular basis
22-01-2012 19:49 #35
22-01-2012 20:31 #36
22-01-2012 20:48 #37
Ok it's a teeny bit different if it is ivf. Sorry but I still stand by my statement that he did a horrible crime therefore gave up his rights to a normal life. And being a dad is included. He wanted to be a dad? Tough, he shouldn't have brutally killed someone. That's the point of prison for someone like him. Life, no parole, no rehabilitation
Imagine if the person he killed was someone on here's husband and they had young kids that now have no dad. I bet not many of you would be so sympathetic then.
22-01-2012 20:55 #38
That man lost his rights all his human rights. Even had he survived would having children be an option for him? Did he have children who are now without their dad?
After reading that I find it hard to feel that he has rights to become a father
But at the same I agree with LHs op about he doesn't lose his human rights just because he is in jail.
I feel bad for the woman about not being able to have children with her DH. But she knew what she was getting into when she married him. who will be paying for the Ivf?
22-01-2012 20:58 #39Senior Member
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This woman needs a psychologist, not a baby.
There is something really wrong with someone who pursues a relationship with someone in jail forever for a violent crime. It's not like they were already together. She has sought out this depraved life, but she shouldn't drag a child into it.
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