My 14 week old daughter has been self-settling for her daytime naps for about 2 weeks now. She's really good, only cries for about 5 minutes before drifting off, and it's not a really intense cry, more just a whinge.
I am just wondering, do babies ever get to a point where they don't cry to settle themselves to sleep? She's already a bit whingy and pretty tired when I put her down, could I be putting her down too late? Should I put her down when she's more awake?
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12-01-2012 12:02 #1
Self settling without crying - can it happen?
12-01-2012 12:33 #2Senior Member
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From the start with my DD after a feed I would put her in her cot awake to go to sleep. (if it was nap time) she is now two and have Neva had an issue with going to bed.
U could try a bit earlier, u just need to trial n error to find what works
12-01-2012 19:00 #3
My DS used to be a little ripper at self-settling....I would put him down, wrap him, dummy, glow-worm music, with ceiling fan on (it would mesmerise him!), and I would not hear boo from him. If I did, there was something wrong or I left it too late and he was over-tired. This has all stopped when he got 4 teeth all at once, but it can happen without any CC techniques.
12-01-2012 19:41 #4
My little dude is 9 weeks and if I catch him at the right time, he will go to bed and lay quietly then just go off to sleep with no crying. Other times he needs a bit of help, but it's possible!
12-01-2012 20:29 #5
Definitely possible - the only time my DS actually cries now when put to bed is if he's over-tired. In which case it's my fault for waiting too long. He's 4.5mths old
12-01-2012 20:38 #6
12-01-2012 21:25 #7
Typically I just set her up like that, give her a kiss and leave the room. Usually it works
It will happen, babies are learning how all this works so they just need time and a little help.
ETA - I find that the earlier I catch the tired signs the easier it is to get her to settle. Often once she got whingy we'd already missed the window. Keep looking for early signs which at that age would be like clenched fists, jerky movements, breaking eye contact, frowning, yawning etc.
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