I woudn't label it as cheating but more like a huge betrayal of trust. I would be so angry.
Your poor friend
+ Reply to Thread
Results 61 to 69 of 69
03-01-2012 08:28 #61
03-01-2012 12:34 #62
Its cheating, eventually "most" meet.
25-01-2012 17:02 #63
I've got the same thing ATM
What to do??!!
25-01-2012 18:57 #64
I think that is discusting behavior for a father. I would be incredibly disappointed in him if that were me. I would feel betrayed.
I don't know if I would forgive it.
I probably couldn't.
I would be seething if I were your friend. He would need to protect his balls while sleeping...
25-01-2012 19:20 #65
Trying to look at it from another angle - it could be a fantasy he's realising through this fictitious woman. Because they don't speak or see each other - purely over text - it is possible he had no intention of taking it any further but was just having his own little fantasy in his own little cyber world which he probably deemed private and non-dangerous. It was probably a rush or thrill for him being involved in the exchange and it was the idea rather than the actual woman that he was talking to.
Of course when you are married (and find out!) to the person involved it can very hurtful and also damaging to your self esteem (ie why wasn't it ME? Am I not sexy enough? Does he want other woman? Etc). The husband may have felt very silly about the whole thing. I don't think i would leave my husband over it but we would definitely be having a conversation and discuss perhaps his sexual 'slump' if it may be. I would definitely be hurt and it would definitely feel like I was betrayed. He's obviously made a very silly decision that could potentially cost him his family. I dont know the guy you are talking about but I'm just trying to see it from an angle of a guy that was making poor decisions without actually considering the serious precursors to his actions.
I know if I was serious in an infidelity - I would be deleting the text messages. Perhaps he didn't see it as cheating... Or perhaps he's a bit daft lol
25-01-2012 19:35 #66Senior Member
- Join Date
- Jan 2010
Definitely cheating in my books!
The Following User Says Thank You to insanity For This Useful Post:
25-01-2012 20:40 #67
25-01-2012 20:53 #68
If you're getting your jollies anywhere else but home, then it's cheatng.
Who are these sad silly women who'd continue a texing relationship with some one they never met?
I ask because in the past 4 years my Dh has received 2 of these so called mistaken identity texts.
The first one he thought was funny, the 2nd he didn't bother to reply to say they had the wrong number, as any chat at all eggs them on.
It just seems to happen a lot out there.
The Following User Says Thank You to Phony For This Useful Post:
25-01-2012 21:05 #69
The Following User Says Thank You to ~YoungMumof3~ For This Useful Post:
Innovations Sports PhysiotherapyWomen’s Health Physios who are able to assess and treat a wide range of Pregnancy and Post Natal Issues. We offer ...
LATESTWhy it is OK for your child to be differentWhat is a blessing way? How is it different to a baby shower?7 ways to break the ‘mumnotony’ at home
POPULARWhen can I start giving chores to my children?New baby nursery checklist – a guide to newborn essentialsWhat to pack for labour and hospital – a checklist
FORUMS - chatting now ...
Any thoughts on my mysterious toddler? :-)General Parenting Tips, Advice & Chat
Show me your lunchbox 2017!!Recipes & Lunchbox Ideas
IVF babies due Sep/Oct/Nov 2017pregnancy and babies through IVF
IVF babies due March/April/May 2017#2pregnancy and babies through IVF
Implantation sickness?Conception & Fertility General Chat
Miracle March TTC and Testing ChatConception & Fertility General Chat
OB reccomendations Westmead Private - C sectionSeeking a Maternity Hospital