Please, can anybody help me , and give me some hope.
I usually dont' bother with poas, but today i gave in, and did one, during the day. It came up negative. I am 11dpt. The box says you can test 4 days before missed period. My bt is on friday 24/2, my period isn't due until 27/2. Is it way too early. I have been feeling on and off like I could be pregnant, now I am wondering if it was all in my head.
Please help me!!!
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21-02-2012 21:07 #531
22-02-2012 12:07 #532
Intrigue - I can't offer any advice as this is my frst cycle but it may not all be over for you. At the moment there are 2 embies inside you and still the potential for 2 lovely babies. Thinking of you and sending lots of your way.
Lannie - You make me blush! Thanks so much for your kind words but I think we are all of great support to each other. Hope you are feeling more positive about the transfer. Have you decided whether to discuss having 2 put back in?
Clementine - You are going through so much at the moment. I hope you are feeling better after the car incident yesterday. People can be so insensitive can't they. Sorry you in-laws are stressing you out but hope that you will be able to find the strength to take care of you and go to your Mum's if you have too. Hope those follies continue to grow and you get a good haul at EPU next week.
Jaseandalyson - Hope the trigger went well, let us know how you get on at EPU for you.
Bellavista - Seems like we are doing the same thing! I can't help myself, trying not to dissect every twinge but it's hard not too. There are symptoms but then I wonder if I am inventing some too!! I was thinking I may POAS next week some time. My BT is not until the 2nd March and it seems so far away. Hope the rest of the wait goes quickly for you. Must be hard working with family when going through this. Hope you can get the space you need. Thinking of you.
Lillystar - I am so so sorry. I wish there was something I could do/say that would ease your pain. Thinking of you and sending lots of love. As Lannie said let yourself feel whatever it is you need too. Here for you if you want to talk.
Martcc - Hope AF comes quickly for you! Keep us posted on how you're going.
Akakura - Hope ET went well for you. Great to have another person on the 2ww!
Bwana - It's hard not to give in I imagine. I don't know what to suggest, it may still be too early. Do you think you would try and test again tomorrow? Or just wait until BT on Friday? I know it's hard not to but try to relax, this is a very emotional journey. I am thinking of you and hoping that it was just too early for the line to show. to you.
AFM - Had a bit of a panic moment earlier thinking that emby really might not have stuck and that we could have gone through all this for nothing. I'm finding the 2ww hard and trying to keep busy but not doing great at that.
to everyone else. Hope you're all ok.
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22-02-2012 13:17 #533
I'm still trying to work out how to use this.
I have to stay it’s so nice to be able to come here and share stories, i don't feel so alone, its nice to hear the good and the not so good stories as it makes it real for eveyone.
Jaseandalyson – hope your EPU went well today???
CG – I feel your pain, had MIL round last night, currently in the middle of my injections feeling very emotional, and constantly wanting to cry over stupid things. Really just wanting some space right now. We're at similar stages, my EPU is next Monday.
Lannie - good luck with transfer.
Lilly – really sorry to hear your news.
Akakura - I too have spent way too many hours online reading googling, researching IVF ICSI acupuncture, hope all went well with EPU today???
TWW – all those in waiting good luck
Everyone else – hello hope your ok?
AFM – had first scan today showing about 11 follies –EPU planned for next Monday 27th. In the meantime, trying to control my emotions, hard to get by 1 day without a cry. Staying positive, having acupuncture, and ignoring sore breasts.
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22-02-2012 15:12 #534Junior Member
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I am also in the 2ww.
Had my first frozen blasotcyst transfer yesterday so am only on day 1 but am edgy already! Have been trying to have a transfer since our first stim cycle in September 2011 but just kept hitting hurdle after hurdle.
Our first stim cycle resulted in 12 eggs but no feritlisation... what a disaster!! Also my estrogen was over 21,000 so i overstimulated as well which was not pleasant.
Second cycle in November we retrieved 9 eggs and 9 fertilised (icsi). 5 made it to blastocyst....result! Fresh transfer cancelled on day of transfer due to lining collapse - went from 9mm to 5 mm - they didnt know why.
So started the frozen HRT cycle in January and it took 5 weeks to get my lining to a passable level of 7.1. so FINALLY we have had a transfer.
Have my test on 06/03 but am going to do an HPT next Wednesday!!
Glad to be a part of a waiting forum!
22-02-2012 17:02 #535Member
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Lillystar- im so sorry, i really do know how you feel, its sucks so bad, least u can get UTD, thats one positive, all i can say is after getting my BFN on Friday, it took me 2 days to pull myself out of the house but its now 5 days after and im starting to see the light, im def not bursting into tears every 5 seconds anymore and am planning for the next one. I went and got my nails and feet done in one of those nail bars, it was great, no one spoke to me, my nails and feet look great, got a massage and feel better.
I really feel your pain, i hope your ok
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22-02-2012 18:06 #536Member
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Hubba and Lillystar my heart is breaking for you. There are no words
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22-02-2012 19:06 #537
Lilly I am so sorry.. Sending you love and hugs xoxo
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22-02-2012 19:25 #538
Lily, my thoughts are with you.
Hubba I'm so glad you treated yourself!
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22-02-2012 19:50 #539
Lily star and Hobbs huge hugs for you guys
Hi to evyone a little me post..
I have a birthday a few days away so I spoilt myself with a spray tan, eyelash extensions (totally glamorous without looking fake) she did a great job, tomorrow a mani and pedi and Friday touch up waxing before a lovely night with 11 of our closest friend to celebrate. Yay I feel really bloated and gross however so spanx it is falling back on the Good old LBD
this is my attempt of keeping me busy til I can test next week.
22-02-2012 22:10 #540
Bwana – I think there is a reason that we have our blood tests when we do, any earlier could be too early. Try to hold on to any patience that you have left – I know that it’s hard.
Little Feet – the TWW is just a mind-bender isn’t it? I’m not as strong in this one as my first one because I’m comparing everything to last time. The last one resulted in a chemical pregnancy so I can’t even decide if the same symptoms would be good or bad.
Sunshine1974 – those sore boobs are tough to ignore aren’t they? Sounds like a good number of follies developing.
Rosie Lou – I feel your pain! My current cycle started in early Jan and it took about 5 weeks to get the lining up to 8mm. Welcome to the TWW.
Bellavista – that sounds like just the ticket for birthday (and TWW) spoiling. Have a great time! I’m going to do my utmost to not POAS and wait for BT. Still a week to go.
Lillystar – so sorry to hear about your chemical pregnancy. I found mine heartbreaking last cycle. I don’t think I’ve ever cried so much. Be kind to yourself.
Marttc – bring on AF and the beginning of new hope.
Akakura – good luck for transfer tomorrow. I hope it goes smoothly. It sounds very unlucky to have two not defrost.
Clementine – is your clinic not able to store a sample from DH in case he is away for work? I’ve seen a few people mention that their DH was able to leave his sample before going away for work. But frosties are good too!
AFM - I'm now 5dp5dt and this TWW seems interminable. Hope I don't go insane!!
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