Poor little bubba.
Just remember though that children are very resilient and heal very well. I will keep your ds in my thoughts.
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29-12-2011 21:35 #31
29-12-2011 22:10 #32
Sending big hugs. Seeing your children in pain is truly heartbreaking. I hope you all recover quickly.
29-12-2011 23:59 #33Senior Member
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Huge to you and your DS.
I hear you about the screaming, my DS spilt freshly boiled water over his arm and chest when he was about 16 months old, and I've got to say the screaming from the time it happened until the morphine was administered in the hospital was the worst sound I've ever heard. Could literally feel my heart breaking listening to it.
He's now 6 and a half, and although there is one scar on his arm, it is not deep and most people don't even notice it until I point it out. I also wanted to tell you that we too were able to bring him home that night after being bandaged up, and Nurofen was all that we needed to administer for pain. I think once the bandages are on the pain is significantly reduced - thank god!!
I understand why your Mum would be feeling guilty. And no one is going to be harder on her than she is going to be on herself. I was literally standing right next to DS when it happened. And I was the one who had just poured the boiling water. I was scoulding a bowl for his dinner! I had the phone in one hand and the kettle in the other. The bowl was on the sink. I poured the water into the bowl, and as I reached over to put the kettle back on the stand, DS's little hand shot up to the bowl, tipped it over and splashed the water onto his hand, which ran all the way down his arm, under his armpit and onto his chest. Thankfully none splashed into his face or things could have been so much worse.
Luckily as we were at the kitchen sink I was able to scoop him up immediately and get him under the cold tap (clothes and all) and screamed like I've never done in my life to my husband who had just pulled into the driveway from work. He actually jumped the gate (6 foot) because he thought we were being murdered or something the way I screamed (well, that's how he tells it anyway ).
It was the most intense, gut wrenching experience I've ever been through (and I've had some doozies), I was literally dry-reaching from guilt and panic. It was awful.
Now to this day I still feel a LOT of guilt when I think about it. I mean it was so stupid! And yet so innocent. You think because you're right there you could stop it from happening, but it doesn't work that way. They are just too quick some times. And he wasn't the sort of kid to grab at things either, so it was totally unexpected. Your poor Mum (and you and DH) will feel guilt, and anger, and a multitude of other emotions. Let them happen. Just remember it has happened. And no amount of guilt and what if's and remorse is going to change that fact. And I'd not be surprised if your DS sleeps better than any of you tonight!!
He will be fine. My DS has no memory of it at all. In fact, he didn't believe me he had a scar until I showed it to him! Even he didn't know it was there
to all of you. Such a horrible thing to go through!!
PM me if you need a chat x
30-12-2011 00:05 #34
I'm sorry to hear, I hope you all manage a good sleep tonight, and your DS heals well! I'm glad you were able to get him under the running water too, it would have helped him so much! Huge hugs!!!
30-12-2011 00:44 #35
Hi hon, My little nephew, aged 18 months, pulled a rice cooker of the bench in his home a few weeks ago and burnt his arm, tummy and some of his leg. He too was sent home with pain killers, silver dressings and told to return to hospital in 3 days to check and redress the burns. The wonderful thing was that after his first nights sleep, he was back to his usual self, bouncing around, running and playing. His burns have healed well and there won't be scarring. He managed really well on panadol. You've been through so much. When we first heard our nephew had been rushed to hospital we felt absolutely sick. I'll bet you'll be surprised how quickly he recovers. Let us know how he is doing in the morning. Get as much sleep as you can too.
30-12-2011 01:03 #36Member
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What a terrible thing to go through for both you and your son, I hope he heals quickly and knows how lucky he is to have a people who care for him so much.
30-12-2011 01:06 #37
Poor thing. I hope he's doing okay.
My brother did the exact same thing when he was a toddler. Mum told me that when she tore his jumper off him a layer of skin came with it. *cringe!* I don't know the rest of the story but he was fine and as far as I know unscarred.
30-12-2011 01:21 #38Senior Member
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I did the same thing when I was 2 or 3ish. I burnt all of my stomach and spent a few days in hospital but have no scars. Hope your little boy isn't in to much pain and gets some rest
30-12-2011 14:33 #39
30-12-2011 15:09 #40
How are you guys doing today?
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