Merry Christmas to me, my BFP was a chemical pregnancy. That's one mc and one chemical in five months of trying.
We both had children in our previous marriages, no problems ever. And I'm only 32 FFS!
I feel like it will NEVER happen. Like I'm going to keep losing every baby I conceive with my darling DH, over and over again until I go mad.
If anyone has a hopeful story to share, I'd love to hear it.
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22-12-2011 17:36 #1
Please give me some hope :-(
22-12-2011 17:52 #2
I have had a miscarriage and it sucks.
Who knows if its just one of those things or if there is something medical going on? Maybe it is worth you and your partner getting some checkup to rule out anything medical? Some ppl also believe stress impacts on them, so maybe look at reducing stresses? Alchohol, fatty foods and a long list of things ppl say impact on their ability to concieve but who knows?
Be gentle of yourself
22-12-2011 17:57 #3
Haven't got anything but huge hugs for you, I really hope that you get a sticky baby very soon xx
22-12-2011 18:05 #4
I guess it might be IVF for us once all that is done. I never thought we'd need it.
22-12-2011 18:19 #5
Look after yourself hun, put yourself first over the next few days.
22-12-2011 20:03 #6
I had two blighted ovums in a row so l feel your pain. However l am now 31 weeks pregnant. I stopped worrying and stressing over getting pregnant and thought l would have a rest. Then it happened. We also got checked out and there was nothing wrong. Good luck and relax..
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22-12-2011 21:02 #7Senior Member
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Hugs to you and your DH. It's horrible to have a lack of success. We had 2 miscarriages and then a very unwell little boy who fell away at 17 weeks. I am now 22 weeks pregnant with a healthy wee girl. Wishing you lots of baby vibes.
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22-12-2011 21:15 #8
Tigger I'm so so sorry. It's just utterly miserable.
Your hope is that you have both had healthy children and there is no reason you can find for this happening. I have read that 50% pregnancies end before AF is due so as horrible as it is it's not unusual.
It's completely unfair that your pathway has included two losses but you can conceive and you will get there. You have to hang onto the dream of that precious take home baby.
Its a horrible thing to happen and I'm so gutted for you.
Here anytime to talk xx
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