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    Hypothetical question for all of you lovely hubbers...

    If you were single and became good friends with a guy and realised that you have developed strong romantic feelings for him BUT he has an amazing girlfriend who you never expect him to leave..

    Would you try to stay friends with him, accepting that you can never express or act on your feelings, or would you stay away from him so as not to torture yourself?


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    Stay friends but try to maintain boundaries if it got too hard I'd consider limiting it to only group social situations etc

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    I'd probably torture myself if I kept seeing him so for my own sanity I'd stay away.

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    My sensible side says stay way, BUT in reality I would probably torture myself.

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    Hmm I would probably try to stay away. But maybe torture myself occasionally..


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    Stay away.

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    Stay right away. Or limit it to social situations where i'm unable to act on any thoughts i may have.

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    I would definitely try to stay away. Depends how strong my feelings were and how amazing the gf was...


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    I have been in this situation and I highly recommend distancing yourself before you get more attached and it gets even harder...

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    I would stay away definately.


 

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