I am at my wits end
Last night he went down at the normal 6 but was up again at 7.
Panadol. Nurofen, he will not settle. I'm soo at my wits end
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12-12-2011 09:35 #1
Please help- 14 month old refusing sleep
12-12-2011 10:05 #2
I could have written this word for word. Dd has been like this for the last week as well and she too is 14 months old.
The only thing I find that works with her is getting her up and letting her play. If we don't she just screams and gets so upset. Even patting and rocking does not work. She normally plays for about an hour to an hour and a half then I give her another bottle and most times she goes back to sleep.
I think her problem is that she's teething but all the usual remedies don't work either
12-12-2011 10:17 #3
Thank you Rhoda, although I'm sorry you're going through the same thing I feel quite relieved I'm not the only one.
I don't let him cry either, he just gets too worked up
Best of luck!
12-12-2011 11:59 #4Senior Member
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Could they be ready to drop a day sleep / delay their bedtime?
13-12-2011 15:43 #5
i went through this with my ds and im about to go through the same thing with dd, the best advice i can give is to really wear them out during the day so that all they want to do is sleep sometimes they may not wear off enough energy , but giving into there cries will only make things worse and they will develop a habit , you have to ignore there cries (i know it sounds cruel) and it is hard but they need to wear themselves out for your own good and theirs, any nurse or doctor will tell you the same thing its for the best
13-12-2011 22:07 #6
Don't agree that this ^^^^ is for their own good at all. Letting babies cry can be very detrimental for their mental health, so much so that the Australian Association for Infant Mental Health has put out a position paper advising against it.
Leaving them to cry feels cruel as it goes against the natural instinct you have as a mother to soothe your crying baby. Babies cry as their only means of communication, not because they are being manipulative, they are telling you that from where they lay, something is wrong.
October and Rhoda, head over to the no cry sleep solutions area under the sleeping discussion headline for some helpful advice.
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13-12-2011 23:08 #7
My dd6 wanted to drop her day sleeps super early. The only way I used to get her to sleep was putting her in our bed, laying down with her and reading a couple of books. I would then lay with her until she fell asleep. Sometimes when she was being really stubborn I would need to sing her to sleep.
This to me was better then no sleep or her screaming in her own room.
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14-12-2011 07:22 #8
14-12-2011 07:26 #9
Thank you for your replies, but I feel letting him cry is not good for him at all.
I don't think he will rob the elderly as a result either.
I will let him grizzle, but full blown crying is him communicating to me.
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14-12-2011 07:37 #10
What are his day sleeps like? Maybe he needs to wake up earlier from an afternoon nap so he's tired enough for bed time...
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