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    Default How to get over your fiancés past

    Okay so I'm newly pregnant and I'm having trouble with knowing my fiancé has had other kids and experienced the pregnancy with someone else aswell like I can't stop thinking was he nicer to her did he do more things for her did he ever cook dinner for her or make her teas and coffees it's driving me crazy and I'm trying my best to just enjoy our relationship but I'm finding this really hard as I know that he was used by her really bad and had to do alot of the work around the house cuz she refused to I just wish there was a way to get passed all of this

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    Have you considered counseling? For just you or you both that may help.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mummykitty View Post
    Have you considered counseling? For just you or you both that may help.
    ^^this
    He's moved on, you need to do the same, you will feel much better for it. You can't compare relationships- apples and oranges. Focus on you and your family- his ex is a part of his past, sure. But so what, you're his future

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    it can be hard sometimes

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    Although I *can* in a way understand where you are coming from........... I think this is more an issue of you being insecure, rather then you needing to "get over his past".....

    Is there something that he does that makes you feel insecure? Does he still flirt with other girls that would make you feel less than what you are? Does he still lead on the mothers of his other children...?

    I think you just really need to let it go. Its not normal to be obsessed over his previous partners and question the type of person he is to have been with an 18yo when he was 28 etc... (going from your other thread).... This was BEFORE you, I could understand your concern if it was while you were together or had started seeing each other........... But it was previous to your relationship..


 

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