That's fantastic news Angelis
Little Feet I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you
We had our BFN confirmed via beta yesterday, it's been such a terrible week. My Af was late and no where in sight, I always know when it is coming and I felt different so I decided last Friday I would poas and I had a faint BFP by Saturday the positive was gone and then on Sunday I started bleeding, but it wasn't AF and it went away within the hour. So I asked my FS if it was a miscarriage, apparently not cause it didn't show in my beta.
So I find myself really unmotivated to do another FET this month but know I can't have a break or stop because all I want is a family. The FS said most couples with MFI have a baby within 4 attempts, I'm not feeling the hope or love anymore
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08-05-2012 13:31 #541
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09-05-2012 16:53 #542
Sorry if you have already read this on another thread.
Well it's good news, we saw one strong heartbeat, didn't measure the heartbeat, but I was able to pick it before he zoomed in, it was beating very fast.It was incredible!!! And I cried!!!
The Bub is measuring 7 wks which is spot on too, as I'm 7 wks and one day today.
He is not 100% definite there was not two as the scan was unclear, next scan will determine this.
EDD is now 27th dec, FS said its a cautious congratulations but everything looks perfect so far....
I keep giggling I'm so excited!!!
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09-05-2012 17:01 #543Senior Member
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Zakmick yahoo Hun I'm so excited for you and maybe two??? I am over the moon for you and I am sure I would cry when I heard thatnlittle heart beat
09-05-2012 17:11 #544Senior Member
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Kmvw I am so sorry for your negative result Hun it really does suck nut you know you need to spoil yourself big time and then just try and get your mind set back into it. I know that's easier said than done but you can do it Hun. If you need to talk about it we are all here and know how crappy you feel every time and I can tell you I have wanted to give up so many times but my want for a baby is much stronger. Good luck xxxx
Little feet I'm sorry your TWW wait is doing your head it it's such a crappy time hold onto the hope that there is a good chance it has worked because your not out until the bt. Thinking of you heaps xxx
Afm well what an appointment he went right back through my history and said well it's time we through the book at you and gave everything a shot to see if we can make it happen so heres the plan
I start on dhea ASAP and take that for two months(actually 4 months) then in 2 months he wants me to start stem cell treatment??? Has anyone done this or heard anything about it as I am not able to find much about it. My fs said they are having some great results from it so who knows it's about 6-7 injections and then I can do a cycle so I'm not seeing my fs until September again!!! Wow it's a long way away oh and he said he will use melatonin on me this time and the filigrastim so it's going to be a megga expensive cycle!!! Then today I was telling my closest girlfriend and she has offered to give me her eggs she said she would love to do that for me how amazing is that it's has made me cry a lot that she would do that for me!!! Im not sure if she is too old as she is 37 what do you guys think???
10-05-2012 13:03 #545
Thanks Leanne, yes I'm very excited!! Went and saw gp this morning and have decided to go to the Rwh after a lot of consideration with obstetricians etc, we can't afford their prices. Gp said I would be classed as having a precious pregnancy which would allow me entry to rwh.
Wow your FS is throwing the book at you, and no I haven't heard of stem cell on ivf- but why not??
That is amazing of your friend to offer, there is a thread on here chatting about surrogacy and donating eggs etc. it brings up some valid things to consider before embarking on that journey. But what a gift!!
So sept will be your time!!!
10-05-2012 14:15 #546
Kmvw - I am so so sorry hun Of course it matters if it was a miscarriage or not. I can't believe your FS said that. It wasn't in your head, I know how easy it is to start having selfdoubt when you are in this process. I thought I was really in tune with my body but since doing this I don't seem to trust myself or my own judgement anymore. Which clinic are you with? I am at MIVF and my FS tells me to make an appt for 3 weeks after transfer that way you have a follow up appt in place. If you are not happy with FS would you consider changing? This is something I have thought of but we are unlikely to do another cycle (various reasons) so it call be over for me very soon. Thinking of you and sending
Zamick - WoW!!! That's amazing. So exciting, I'm still hoping you have 2 in there and one was hiding! Good luck with the next scan. xxx
Leanne - You are amazing. I can not stress how much I admire your strength and determination to do what you need to do to have your baby. Your baby is going to be so lucky to have you as a Mummy as clearly you would do everything for your child. I have no clue about all the things your FS has suggested but so glad that he is positive and determined to do whatever needs to be done to get your BFP. I can not wait until I hear you announce it! I wish I could have some of your strength, if this cycle doesn't work for us we won't be doing another. Various reasons and it makes me so sad I would keep going, but it's not just my decision. Best of luck to you xxxx
AFM - Hoping I'm still in with a chance but not feeling it. Trying to prepare myself for bad news.
10-05-2012 14:56 #547Senior Member
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Oh little feet honey I'm feeling yr pain right now it's the hardest decision to give up on your dream but you are still in with a fighting chance this round you know I'm sure if I had a dh and I was going through this I'm sure he would have said to me enough is enough due to the money that I have thrown away (I think it's over $40k by now I just don't think about it). It has always been my dream to have kids and I think I am finally starting to come to terms that it might not happen. I have given myself this cycle which will be in September and one more after that and I'm out too I am no different to all of the amazing woman on these threads that go through Ivf but maybe I need my head read for not giving up earlier??? When is yr bt hun?? Always remember how amazing you are to go through this tough Ivf journey you are one tough lady and if u want to pm to chat please feel free
10-05-2012 15:46 #548
leannep, looks like Dr Nick is really cool...he seems so proactive! You seem excited and hopeful...great! Your friend is amazing. She is 37, I am not sure about her history but I think she is amazing to offer her eggs. I was 38 when I got my BFP, I did feel I had old or bad eggs esp going through 3 cycles wo success, but it did work on the 4th...one embryo out of 32 ones we have got.
Zakmick, for the heartbeat!!! How exciting!!!
Angelis, congratulations to your best friend!!! Your hard work has paid off angel!!!
I am a bit late want to Vesper CONGRATULATIONS on the arrival of Winter Violet!!!
kmvw, were you crinone? Crinone delayed my AF for my 2nd or 3rd cycle even though I was bfn. and my AF came in bits and drabs and made me really depressed. It is so normal to be discouraged and unmotivated...things need to sink in, then we get over it, dust ourselves find our strength again and ready to charge again. I never imagine the 4th cycle to work for us, DH has MFI. We were told by FN that average cycles for each couple is 6. Hope you feel better soon.
Little Feet... hang in there!
10-05-2012 17:09 #549
Just wanted to pop in to say a big congratulations to zakmick! Hoping that everything goes nice and smooth from now on (I might do the occasional stalk to check up on you )
And good luck for your cycle later in the year Leanne, you are one determined lady
Best wishes to everyone...
10-05-2012 19:10 #550
I have been thinking about changing Doctor's. I want to do my research within the next week if the next 1 or 2 natural FET's fail, anyone recommend a FS at Monash? I have 3 embryo's left all 2 day.
I was sent the new price list for MIVF on Tuesday
Stimulation IVF Cycle + ICSI will be $9190
Embryo Thaw Cycle will be $2605
Hospital bed fee (East Melbourne Specialist Day Hospital -OPU $830 & ET $395)
Embryo storage fee $160 per 6 months in arrears.
As for Crinone, no I was on a natural FET. I did have Crinone on my antagonist cycle, but that didn't delay AF. I never made it to the BT on the fresh cycle. My normal cycle is 28 days, I have never had a cycle like this.
I'm a little concerned with my cycle this month, it is all over the place. It is never like this. I feel I should have a month break but the FS said it's fine. I guess the next scan will show any problems.
Thanks for letting me rant I'm feeling a little better, starting to feel a little more positive. Thanks Mom2oneDS, your bfp gives me hope.
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