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    Default anyone who's been TTC for a while want to do the 2WW with me?

    Hi gals, well i guess i'm now in the 2WW. i went to the fertility specialist doc friday, and he looked to see the size of my follicle about to rupture (on CD13) and it was 27mm, so he said any second now, and to go home and have emergency sex.... ha ha, it was funny how he said that. luckily we did it CD 10, 12, 13, and yest CD14. so you'd think by now i've ovulated. will give tonight a miss and will do one more try tomorrow, as DH sensed he had less volume last night, even tho i know there'd still be millions in a small sample.
    Anyway, this is the last month we're TTC without some sort of intervention. You see, after the period (due around dec 9th-11th as i vary from 26-28 day cycles), i'm going to have a laparoscopy, hysteroscopy and dye flushed in my tubes to look for endo or blockages etc. and i'm feeling SCARED. scared that it's come to this, scared that i wont recover well and will regret it, scared that they'll find something untreatable and yet relieved all at the same time that after 8 months of TTC this time round, that i'm able to take some serious action and be investigated further. main issue is that i spot atleast 3 days before period sets in, and then the witch only lasts 1.5 days and then starts dwindling off. altho no pain, they are wondering that since it's taking way longer this time and the spotting, that perhaps there could be an issue such as endo. we have been TTC since sept 2010 and altho got preggers, we m/c at 6 weeks in april 2011. so it feels as tho this damn journey is taking forever, even tho we did have success, but that now feels more like a set back, as that wasted our time and got our hopes up that after 5 months of TTC we had success. since then i am losing all hope it's ever gonna happen again for us. wow, cant believe i have ranted for that long. so i'd love some company in this 2WW and hope we all get our BFP, esp those i know who have been trying a while like me.
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    Hi merri berri, I just wanted to wish you lots of luck for this month.
    Wish I could join you in the tww but I have similiar surgery in 3 days to see why I can't stay pregnant.

    I have been trying since April also and had 2 MC's since then.

    Hopefully you won't need the op and get UTD this cycle

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    Good luck!! Wish I was tww (although I reckon its the hardest part) I will be there in less than two weeks if all goes to plan

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    Hi Merri Berri! Just popping in to wish you luck! Im using OPKs this cycle and am CD18 and I havent 'O'ed yet so I cant join you in the wait just yet..Fingers crossed you caught the egg!!!

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    Wishing you lots of luck!!
    I'm in the tww as well, 4dpo and will be testing on the 7th officially (most likely will start 9-10dpo).
    We have been trying for number 1 since march and I was meant to have the internal ultra sound last month (I chickened out and never made the appoint).
    I have had one before and found it so unpleasant I need to build up the courage!! Plus I've had a few gyno appoints lately and need a break!!
    So I understand your hesitation and worry!! I suppose the pay off is you will have some answers and will be able to put a plan into place.
    Fingers crossed for a BFP before then!!

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    you didnt think much of the internal ultrasound hey edb? maybe it was unpleasant coz the person doing it was unpleasant. or was it painful. i have had 2 done now, and nothing has been found, but both people doing them were very considerate and kind and told me everything that we were looking at (not that i understood half of the pictures on the screen!). it's way easier than a good old pap smear you must admit

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    Quote Originally Posted by nearlydone View Post
    I have similiar surgery in 3 days
    let me know how you go, i'm very interested to hear how you went, even though you prob wont hear your results till a week after the op. but do let me know the experience. and i'm aware that everybodies body's react differently

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    Quote Originally Posted by merri berri View Post
    let me know how you go, i'm very interested to hear how you went, even though you prob wont hear your results till a week after the op. but do let me know the experience. and i'm aware that everybodies body's react differently
    Will do.
    Am hoping to find out something straight after the op, hoping lol.

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    Best of luck! All my fingers and toes are crossed for you!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by nearlydone View Post
    Am hoping to find out something straight after the op, hoping lol.
    i was told by my doc that i'd get results a week later at an appoint. but guess i'll know if there was atleast 'something' found if there's more than just the incision through the bellybutton!!!


 

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