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    Quote Originally Posted by lilwish View Post
    so this is the ultimatum now... at least one of these twinnies in me has to go the distance or there's no kids for us. I've come to terms with it all more now... Could go either way and would be upset of course but not devastated anymore.
    Sorry to hear the little potential frosty didn't continue.
    I am sending you every positive vibe I can muster. I really really hope one (or both!) of those twinnies take the hint and implant with the intention of growing into your child. Your sure are one brave lady facing IVF for so long and with the disappointments and challenges you have faced.
    I think my FS was suprised when I said I wanted to keep going- she thought that my disappointment may have changed my mind. But so far, I am so early trying I look around me and know I have a few more cycles before I stop.
    The hope is still greater than the loss.

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    Lilwish I have been through one miscarriage and I found it so devastating. Something I will always have with me. I can't imagine the courage it must take to keep trying - well actually I do as that's what we all do on this thread. It sounds like you seem to get so far ahead of the rest of us by actually managing to get pregnant. So close! Does your FS know why this keeps happening? I really feel for you and I really, really hope these little ones hang in there. x

    [AFM, confirmed yesterday that 3rd embie didn't make it, so no frosties therefore no back up FET... so this is the ultimatum now... at least one of these twinnies in me has to go the distance or there's no kids for us. I've come to terms with it all more now... Could go either way and would be upset of course but not devastated anymore. I just keep feeling too old to keep trying. It's been 3 yrs, 11 cycles and 3 MC so far... a 4th MC would be the final straw.But I'm doing fine. Trying not to think about 2ww or anything beyond too much, in fact talk more about not having kids these days (gearing myself up for the reality). Weird... never thought I'd get to this stage.Have a gr8 day everyone[/QUOTE]
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    Lilwish - again I hear ya! I have never felt old until this last week. I said I wouldn't put a limit on how many cycles I would do this time around, but after this week I am 99% sure this is my last attempt. The last time I came to that conclusion I fell pregnant with DD, hopefully this is a good omen for you, and me! I wish you mega big bub vibes for these little guys to make your wish come true! X

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    Lilwish my test date is also the 16th which is 17 days after day 3 transfer of 2 embies. Im also feeling old as birthday soon and will be 40! As lot of luck in this as well.

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    some info on dhea that I found:
    http://haveababy.blogspot.com.au/search?q=dhea

    My integrative Doc wants me to go off the DHEA so that he can establish a baseline. He thinks that I have too much DHEA which has started to convert to oestrogen and which in turn can be pretty harmful (cancer causing) and due to a hormonal imbalance be counterproductive to my fertility. My only hesitation is that it takes so long for DHEa levels to get established (3-4 months) before it is effective that I don't want this to set me back. On the other hand an overdose is probably making me infertile. So confusing!!!!!! Has anyone had any experience with this?
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    Hi ladies now thats ENOUGH old talk!!!!!!!!!!!!! i reakon your only as young as the man your feeling and my man is 7 years younger.................


    lilwish- I have started my cycle -i may have confused you when i said september i was being presumptuous in saying thats when my 7 week hb scan would be,wishfull thinking....


    Im currently on my day 4 of clomid , last clomid tablets tomoz and then scan on monday to check my lining ..


    hope all is well


    cheers

    ICSI #1 2008(1 Embryo) -DS Archie Jo(stillborn at 36wks and 5 days)
    ICSI #2 2009(2 Embryo's) 1 Transfered -BFN (1 frozen)
    FET #3 2009 BFN
    ICSI #42009(2 Embryos) 2 Transfered -BFN
    ICSI #52010(2 Embryos) 2 Transfered -BFN
    ICSI #6 2011 May/June 2011 -BFN

    ED 2011 no luck -BFN

    # 8 Here we come

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    Dear AF,
    Where are you witch? I want to start this cycle!
    Love Forty

    Oh and the funny thing the FS said to us yesterday "How many more children were we thinking of?" That blew me away, I was like WHAT!??? (((1))) would be nice. LOL I am 41, so not exactly thinking of 3 more... not with 3 already. Besides, DH is like "Hell no, one more is IT". Then I started thinking (dangerous I know) what IF I could have 2 more? Hmmm... then I rethought... hello one more is miracle enough given my pregnancy history. But I thought it was funny. I think if I said I wanted more then the approach would be all stim cycles to try and fill the freezer with the aim of FET later.

    UPDATE:
    I am OFFICIALLY on CYCLE!!!
    AF arrived today and 5DPO we have a FET! Approx 23 May!
    Excited!
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    Thank you all for all you support and lovely kind words, girls. You're always there with the right things to say.Tens, good luck with scan.Fort, hope AF shows up soon!Kenti, how's the 2ww going? I'm trying to forget about it but DH keeps reminding me! He said he's only still trying for my sake but I know he's more hopeful this time than I am.Hi to everyone else! Hope you're well

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    Hello ladies hope every1 is well

    Fortitude-you sound like me maybe we were twins in our past life I too have wondered why not two........ Good luck with your cycle what is your date? I hope ur right there with me


    Lilwish-Dont you just love when our dh's try to down play everything I hit my dh up once about why he does that too,his reasoning is if he down plays it then it will hurt less.....yeah right. I always catch him looking at pg women and babies with a real longing in his eyes and occassionally tears as do I.

    hello every1 ive missed hope u all have a terrific weekend



    cheers

    ICSI #1 2008(1 Embryo) -DS Archie Jo(stillborn at 36wks and 5 days)
    ICSI #2 2009(2 Embryo's) 1 Transfered -BFN (1 frozen)
    FET #3 2009 BFN
    ICSI #42009(2 Embryos) 2 Transfered -BFN
    ICSI #52010(2 Embryos) 2 Transfered -BFN
    ICSI #6 2011 May/June 2011 -BFN

    ED 2011 no luck -BFN

    # 8 Here we come

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    Tens2many, that bit about your hubby brought a mist to my eye! I always feel my alone-ness in this journey and the fact that being alone has brought me here in fact but I'm glad i don't have to deal with someone else's grief as well.
    lilwish, hang in there!
    Fort - have you tried parsley tea or wearing white where there's nowhere to change?

    AFM - I'm trying to eat well, exercise more, avoid alcohol, wait til next month to start my last cycle. AF will probably disappear in exactly 3 weeks time. Damn the woman!
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