It is disapointing. and a new situation to challenge you both, with all the love you share together there is an answer waiting for you. You have options! they themslves pose challenges. discuss them all openly honestly with what you truely feel inside. Each challege is a stepping stone toward the child, children that you want. Some of us take for granted that we form relationships and simply expect to have children when we want them, It is only when we look at the challenges of other parets to be we realise how lucky we are. Never give up, never give in, lots of support out here. Joat