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    Default Ex husband vent

    Just have to vent about my ex husband.. We have been seperated


    since 2003 at that time our kids were 9,7,3,3 he has been on centerlink so
    he paid about $20 a month cs.


    Half way thru this year our eldest dd
    went to live with him, she is in year
    12. Up until last year she was on my
    ftb an receiving abstudy which
    covered her resource fees for school
    an gave her about $20 a fourtnight.
    Then she turned 16 in sep an all that
    changed she was taken off my ftb an
    given her own money .
    So the beginning of this year I just forgot that I had to pay it as the money has gone straight to the school for the last 4 years. Well now her formal is coming up an an she
    tells me I have to pay it or she cant
    go.
    She asked me yesterday if I will have the money this week an I said well I will have to wont I, she says to me well dad has some money saved but didn't want to tell you untill you asked if you could borrow it cause he wants you to pay it back, well at least half cause I have been living their half the year, but technial it was due at the beginning of the year.
    I took a moment to take that in then got really annoyed, I have raised these kids with no support from him untill 6 months ago. I have paid for every excursion, uniform, text book, pen, pencil an all the rest that goes into raising 4 kids for the last 8 years.
    I am so angry with him that if he has the money he should just pay it, maybe I should work out a bill gir everything I have paid over the years and tell him ok I'll go halves in this but heres you bill for the last 8 years. Arrgh sorry for such a long vent.

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    Typical isn't it. Sounds like she's been influenced by him too. Try not to bite back and let him deal with it

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    Update.
    bloody luck of the Irish..
    I convinced him to pay it, he went up today an the school said it has been paid by some type of funding they had... aargh Just not fair he gets off again.


 

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