I am so sorry that I have been neglecting this thread. I have had so much going on lately that I feel a bit all over the place.
My mum was taken to hospital about a month ago and was put into ICU as she was really sick and struggling to breath. She was there for about 3 weeks and then moved to a normal ward. She has now been able to go home and she seems to be doing ok.
My mum is a really strong willed woman and wouldn't tell you something was wrong unless it was really bad, and for her to tell us to call an ambulance we knew something was wrong. When I talked to the ambulance worker in emergency he said that if we left it any longer there would have been nothing we could do.
While all this was going on I was basically trying to keep my family together. My dad was trying to be strong in front of us kids, but you could see that all he wanted to do was fall apart, my older brother and younger sister were angry and my older sister was really emotion and flew up from Victoria to be with our mother. As I work in the health service everyone seemed to look to me for answers and they were questions that I couldn't answer so it put a lot of stain on me.
Also my body doesn't seem to be playing since with me and I think it could be a mixture of stress, PCOS and my low iron, as I am day 65 with many negative HPTs and no AF in sight.
I am sorry about the "its all about me post" I hope you all are doing well
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12-10-2011 18:43 #161
12-10-2011 20:33 #162
It's okay you can talk about what's going on that's what we're here for.
Sounds like a very hectic time for you x
I hope your mum is feeling better x
Wow! No af for that long and no pregnancy hormones ??? How unfair for you ! I hope your body works itself out xxxx big hugs xxxxx
12-10-2011 20:36 #163
Thanks Kristyb. Mum is doing a lot better now and she saw her specialist today and they have got a good plan in place for her. I am going to give it another week and if there is no positive or AF I will be heading to the doctors.
I just don't feel like I am in a good place right now as I feel like I have no control over anything.
14-10-2011 09:07 #164
Hi ladies i hope we r all feeling good today
Oh kimnus what a full on time you have had lately im glad to here your mum is on the mend and i hope things start to look up for you soon (as well as a BFP) it sucks when you feel like you have no control over things especially your body... By the sounds of it you are an incredibly strong woman. and you will get through to the otherside of this patch even stronger
I know we r only a bunch of randoms on the internet but we r all here to help and support you the best we can
AFM: i feel good, it was our anniversary this week and we got all dressed up and went out for dinner, just the two of us no kids, it was so nice to be able to sit and talk to DH just about stuff, i know it sounds incedibly cheesy but it was like i fell on love with him all over again, for the last couple of years it has all been about the kids and i had forgotten what an amazing person he really is outside of being a great father and husband... I just hope my good mood can last a while
14-10-2011 10:55 #165
is there room for me to join? Seems like you ladies know each other so well i'm afraid to butt in !
14-10-2011 11:18 #166
Your more than welcome to join in, the more the merrier... They r an awesome bunch of ladies in here who are a great support
14-10-2011 13:05 #167
Of course you can join in! It's nice to have support when no one else in real life gets how you are feeling
14-10-2011 14:15 #168
Thanks everyone...and your not a bunch of randoms lol
Welcome Entwife you are more then welcome to join us
14-10-2011 14:21 #169
I just read your post about your night out Kimnus. It sounds fabulous! I'm glad you got to feel in love with your dh all over again
14-10-2011 14:22 #170
Just thought I would pop in to say I'm starting a mothers group in CHERMSIDE AND SURROUNDS. Everyone is welcome and I'm hoping to create a support network for us mums with (depression,anxiety,bipolar disorder etc.)
I want to create an environement where we can talk openly about our conditions and not feel embarrased/ unwelcome as we will all be in the same boat.People who live with people with these conditions are also welcome so you can get a real insight into people with anxiety/depression disorders and maybe some helpfull infomation as well.
Let me know if you are interested
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