hi everyone Iam new to all this its my first post but just need to talk to people who understand my husband and I have been trying for a baby for 6 years we just had our 4th miscarriage yesterday spent the day in hopsital had to have a d&c as our baby was 9 weeks we have tried ivf a couple time at least we can get pregnant but we never get past 9 weeks my heart is so broken I dont know what to do I want to keep trying for a baby but I am just not sure if I can deal with this pain again
+ Reply to Thread
Results 1 to 10 of 37
28-07-2011 08:07 #1
28-07-2011 08:15 #2Senior Member
- Join Date
- May 2011
Oh honey - am so sorry to hear of your loss. I have had m/c in the past (5 between DS as dd, he will be 4 soon, she is 6 months) so I know how dissapointing, heartbreaking, distressing and discouraging it can be. I guess on the plus side - as you said - you can get pregnant, bubs just doesn't seen to stick, which was the same problem I had.
I hope things work out for you, and that you take as much time as you need to grieve and figure out where to go from here. Xoxoxox
28-07-2011 08:15 #3
Ohh I hear you there.
I'm fortunate enough to have a miracle Clomid DD. But I've been trying since she was 1.
I've had 4 miscarriages with ivf as well, I can't make it past the 7 week first scan. It's heartbreaking. I constantly search for answers... Thought I finally had one but just got a bfn on a FET. Back to the FS today for more questions.
Have they done further testing for you?
Just letting you know you're not alone. I'm an ear if you need to talk x
28-07-2011 08:24 #4
thanks everyone and yeah nat84u we have had heaps of tests done they cant find anything I think it has something to do with my hormones my periods were never on time from the day I went off the pill and I only ovulate when ever my body wants to I think I need more support once Iam pregnant to help the baby form and grow I dont know Iam just trying to look for answers a reason why I guess sometimes there is no answers
28-07-2011 08:27 #5
Oh sweety we are in a similar situation and have been trying for 6-9 years and have had a few MC.
I think you need a break form it all and take time to mourn the loss of your baby, it doesnt matter how old bubba was it was still your baby. Thinking this way kills me but helps me to know that i can get pregnant and one day i will get my take home baby.
I have just finished my 10th round of fert meds with no success....i feel done at this point but i know i will want to keep trying when the time is right.
Please pm me if you want to chat.
28-07-2011 22:38 #6Senior Member
- Join Date
- Jul 2011
it is so heartbreaking i know. has anyone suggested baby aspirin to you? i only say that as my cousin was suggested to take this as she had many as well, but think she has an issue with blood clotting in general. just a thought to try. stay strong and chat on here and to friends as much as you need to about it. dont hold it in xx
29-07-2011 09:07 #7
what is baby asprin? I think mine has to do with hormones
29-07-2011 11:33 #8
hunny. I was told I would never have my own children. it took 96 months to hold my lil man in my arms!!! and my DD was a beautiful surprise. I know how blessed I am but I know how agonising those years were. We have been trying 18 months for another lil one. I am on fert meds and I added baby aspirin (100mg) last cycle and my lining was the best it had ever been. I have had 2 m/c on this journey and if I wasn't so stubborn and didnt have people around me who cared I would of given up by now!!
I wish you all the luck in the world hun xoxo
29-07-2011 12:15 #9
I feel your pain i really do and i am so sorry to hear that but don't give up. Your situation sounds very similiar to mine. We tried having a bub for 9 and a half years after a few miscarriages in that time and a few years of having the no baby blues..11 years later we FINALLY have our beautiful little boy who is now 4 months old and just perfect (ALSO conceived naturally!!!). Its hard being in your situation but you just need to keep in the back of your mind that when your precious lil bub finally makes his or her arrival its all so worth it and all the heartache and heartbreak is gone. Best of luck to you and lots of baby dust
09-11-2011 09:52 #10
hi Iam back well we just had another go at AI today so now its just the tww that drives me crazy so this month we get pregnant and it stays there
The Following User Says Thank You to 6 years trying For This Useful Post:
Stubborn Ox (09-12-2011)
By angelinac in forum Pregnancy & Birth General ChatReplies: 12Last Post: 14-08-2012, 08:33
By Hedda in forum General Parenting Tips, Advice & ChatReplies: 10Last Post: 07-05-2012, 16:30
Heinz Baby BasicsOur BPA Free range offers you a choice for every stage of your baby’s feeding development. You’ll love our ...
LATESTWhy it is OK for your child to be differentWhat is a blessing way? How is it different to a baby shower?7 ways to break the ‘mumnotony’ at home
POPULARWhen can I start giving chores to my children?New baby nursery checklist – a guide to newborn essentialsWhat to pack for labour and hospital – a checklist
FORUMS - chatting now ...
Egg Donation in South Africa #14Egg Donation
Egg Donation in Greece #5Egg Donation
I am... #20General Chat
Loan for a businessFamily Finances
Lunch box ideas that doesn't include sandwichRecipes & Lunchbox Ideas
Pelvic floor exercises - extra helpGeneral Health
Inheritance WWYDGeneral Chat