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04-06-2015 08:15 #741
long term and new ttcers with relax approach chat
04-06-2015 12:33 #742
like what time of day do people find best? mornings are no good, I'm not a morning person at all. and I find after work in the evenings I'm tired and not in the mood. wtf. surely it can't be this hard!??
04-06-2015 14:38 #743
@lolly007 I think the libido thing has been cr@p ever since the birth of my DS. But maybe worse in the past 12 months, hard to tell. How do you monitor that stuff?! I always have 400 things on my mind and find it hard to switch off. I am mentally doing a shopping list during BD. True story!! 😂
@GemimaPuddleduck - The only times (and there haven't been many!) I have felt remotely horn-bag-like have been early morning... Like when I am still half asleep. Probably because I haven't started thinking yet and I am relaxed. Hard though when I have a 3yo jump into bed with us at sunrise, kind of kills the mood!! And DH prefers night. We are polar opposite in that way. But I can absolutely convince him in the mornings if needed.
Babysitter booked for this wknd wish me luck!!
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04-06-2015 18:56 #744
04-06-2015 19:35 #745
@sunnygirl79 I was just about to suggest you take a break. Welcome baby sitter! Lol you should try and schedule a night or two away each month when you expect to O and make it relaxed. @lolly007 I like weekends. We can go several times a day. I get up too early to do mornings of a work week and I'm exhausted at the end of the day so when I get into bed I want to sleep not bd. weekends is where it's at for me. But that doesn't always work with o day.
04-06-2015 20:10 #746
whoa a few times a day! you go girl!!
yeah annoying when work schedule dictates the bd and you have to try and work o week into it!!
09-06-2015 14:23 #747
So I had my first acupuncture appointment on Friday. All good, she had a good chat with me and stuck in some needles, not really sure what to expect but I figure it can't hurt. At the very least it's helping with my stress levels. She also wants me to take BBT which I agreed to do just for this cycle as the whole concept is a bit much for me, all that testing stresses me out (when I am trying to relax?!). Also off to get blood tests end of this week, hopefully between all that they can figure out when I O (or of I O at all!).
Date night went well, except hubby was on a mission to get me drunk lol. Not sure if that helps the situation but we had fun 😊. He also cooked me dinner last night (and cleaned up!) so he's trying to help me relax too. Now I just have to stop thinking so much!
10-06-2015 21:02 #748
bbt def adds stress to it all I think. I was bbt-ing and have stopped. just found it was making me way too obsessive and focused on every tiny detail. I feel like I've bbt-ed enough to know that I do o (I think!!!) and roughly when. I sort of fazed it out, only bothering during o week then stopped after I got the temp rise. now I really can't be bothered. it's just too intense. I keep track of af so I know what cycle day I'm on at any given time but that's it.
so did you get much bd in on the date night?? drunk or otherwise :P
10-06-2015 21:22 #749
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