OMG! I cannot fathom that he would not even reply! I hope you can take some time to nurture yourself and that one day you find someone truly worthy of you.
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01-05-2011 16:05 #51
01-05-2011 16:06 #52
Wow. I am glad you are feeling better about it all. I would feel gutted by his reaction (or lack of it) because it seems he doesn't care.
You seem like a very strong woman. Hugs.
01-05-2011 16:08 #53mama bear
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gosh how upsetting! my heart goes out to you
it seems like he is completely detached from you
its a good thing that you sent the email, if he wanted out of the relationship he should have told you what he was feeling! what a coward
you deserve someone who treats you properly!
01-05-2011 17:37 #54
Wow- I'm so sorry to hear this!!!
I guess it reinforces his behavior while he's been away-
Please let us know how you're doing-
Know that even tho it may be 'online'- we're here for u and your not alone.
You must be so bewildered!!!
01-05-2011 17:46 #55
I'm really sorry.
01-05-2011 17:55 #56Senior Member
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ust finished reading your thread and OMG, i cant believe alot of things about this.
1. Mum sends a valentines day card from the person who loves his the longest...JUST A BIT CREEPY!!
2. That he didnt want to jump your bones as soon as he saw you...If i havent seen my DH for ONE day, I have to beat him off with a stick!!
3. That he hasnt replied to your email!!
Like everyone has said, i wouldnt be jumping to any conclusions (i know its hard) as hes (hopefully) is just clueless about how you are feeling.
I cant imagine how sh*tty you are feeling. Good one you for telling him how you feel...that cant have been easy. As for the TTC stuff, maybe (sorry in advance) its a good thing you've seen what hes really like before any kids came along. Things happen for a reason.
I really hope things work themselves out for you but just remember, Theres plenty of opportunity to start a family with someone else. Maybe he just wasnt the 'right' one.
Lots of hugs to you!!
01-05-2011 18:58 #57
Wow, I'm sorry to read it's turning out like this. But at least you know where you stand and can get on with looking after you. Get a working bee going on the house so you can sell the damn thing and move back to somewhere you can feel supported.
01-05-2011 19:56 #58Senior Member
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OMG I am so sorry!!!
We are all here for you. Stay strong, you are amazing.
01-05-2011 20:18 #59
Wow, I've just read this thread and I'm so sorry firstly because of what your husband has put you through with your 'marriage' which seems to be a marriage in name only, but mostly because he couldn't even take the 20 seconds to acknowledge your email, even if it was just to let you know he needed more time to think about it. I'm glad you seem to have come to a decision and can move on with your life
01-05-2011 20:25 #60
I've been reading but not replying. I'm sorry that you have had to endure this pain. I'm glad that you have come to a decision.
I know it's probably my own bias from my relationship with hubby's mother, but I think she is the toxin in your relationship. She is the other woman, not a gf on the side.
I also keep hoping that your DH comes to his senses and fights to get you back. I wish he was taking to long to reply because he is packing all of his things to show up on your doorstep. I know I'm wrong but I'm a hopeless romantic. You deserve someone who'll fight for you, and fight hard.
Good luck with moving forward. Be strong and prioritise you.
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