I struggled on and off for a long time but Generally I am at a point now where i feel so sorry for my mum. How hard it must be to live in such a way. The only way I could accept it was to have empathy. Mind you this is my first pregnancy and I've struggled with my emotions and it's been hard. I start to doubt my myself and question myself. I'm just lucky that my dp understands because she has seen my mum in action.
In your dp's situation I would say to try and learn to take it with a pinch of salt. Don't wrack your brain trying to figure her out, just have faith in yourself and your decisions.
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25-04-2011 20:47 #23
That is becoming another option for me also. I have done it before but I struggle though as it means I can't see my brother who is 12. She makes life hell when things don't go her way.
MissY thanks for starting this thread! And good on you for taking action.
25-04-2011 21:02 #24Senior Member
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Ohh hun big big hugs!
Be careful as these lightbulb moments can make you emotionally exhausted and raw.
I had loads of this and still do.
My family have told me numerous times that i was never fostered lol. It was such a kick in the face when I befriended one of the foster children on facebook and they remembered everything!
Its so amazing how you really do end up questioning your own truth.
I still find myself very unsure of my own memories. I had people making them up for so long that now i struggle.
My gran loves to tell people that i make it all up. its all in my head ...
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