I have just posted this in a couple of threads but couldn't be bothered making a new post so here it is and sorry of you have read it 3 times!! Lol!!! Hi to everyone and I'll do sone personals tomorrow x
I feel like I'm going to vomit!!! Feeling really sick tonight and not real sure why...
I had my follow up dr app today to discuss the hycosy results but they didn't tell me anything different..just that they think clomid and ivf are the best options but because my right tube is fine that I still have a 70% chance of conceiving naturally...
I called Dh to tell him what they said and that they are recommending ivf and he said..oh well they can recommend whatever they want but it doesn't mean we have to do it.
I think I need to start coming to terms with the fact that it may not happen for us..we may not get our baby...
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15-02-2011 21:16 #481
17-02-2011 00:23 #482
hopefulandwaiting - sorry that you're feeling like you may never get your baby, but remember that you have a 70% chance of falling pregnant naturally & your dr is willing to put you on clomid which will increase the chances even more. IVF is probably just a 'plan b' at the moment so I wouldn't stress too much about your DH sounding like he's not going to give it a chance. Males tend to take a while to catch up to us girls when it comes to making decisions about TTC. I'm sure once he's thought about things & seen how much your willing to do to get your baby then IVF won't be that big of a deal.
My next appt with my fs is on the 3/3 - that's your next appt too, isn't it? we both march into our appt's waving around
Angelsbubswithwings - nice to hear from you. You have so much going on at the moment, hope the move goes well, such a pain but will be worth it in the end I'm sure. Hope nothing personal of yours was damaged when the house was damaged. How's your DS going with the new meds? Let us know the results from the miscarriage clinic? Hope you get the answers you want.
yay for you on your weight loss, you're an inspiration!!!!
Jazz - how did you go with the GP?
AJgirl - Good on you for adding your ticker!!!! Did you end up joining the 'due in' thread? Sorry about Twin A must've been sad seeing the ultrasound, yet so joyful at the same time. When is your next ultrasound?
Hopefulmum2b - How did the HyCoSy go? Thinking of you
AFM - I'm still in the TWW, CD21. Had my last blood test today. I've been the grumpiest, horriblest (is that even a word) person to be around these past couple of weeks, I crack it soooooo easy which is not like me. Last night I cracked it that the house wasn't clean enough (it's perfectly clean, just not up to my anal standards) so poor DH just went with the mood & helped me clean, we started cleaning at 10pm!!!! Poor guy. But today we had a nice lunch together & did a little shopping for DH, so I guess the moods go as quickly as they come.
to us all xxx
17-02-2011 15:44 #483
copying my post from the other forum
Well I have just got back from my appointment at the recurrent miscarriage clinic and I have tested positive to heterozygous (meaning from one parent not both) Factor 5 Leiden.
I can't tell you how relieved I am - our chromosomes, 3d ultrasound and everything else came back fine.
They think the factor 5 caused my last two missed miscarriages, both babies died at 11 weeks and it was picked up at my nuchal scan at 12 and 13 weeks. I did a lot of research after the last miscarriage and had concluded that this might be caused by a blood clotting disorder as the fetus is relying on the placenta to take over at 10 weeks and if tiny blood clots have formed, the baby doesn't get nourished and then dies. I have no idea how i managed to have DS11.
Anyway, I have read back and seen that there are some others on here with the same factor 5. At the moment I am continuing on my low dose baby asprin (100mg) that I have been taking for the last month or so. I am also taking Ellevit and mega dose folic acid.
They will monitor me at the clinic from 4 weeks and have said I can have weekly ultrasounds from 6 weeks onwards or less frequent - what I want. The clinic is so wonderful and the staff so amazingly supportive. The ultrasound today showed my corpos luteum and I would have ovulated about 6 days ago so I am really hoping we get a bfp.
17-02-2011 17:36 #484
ANGEL: Thanks Sweetie. I'm glad that AF is here. I know that at least I can do my scan on tuesday, get it over and done with, get my results and take it from there. I'm trying to stay positive, but as you know sometimes it's just not possible. We hope my BFP is not too far away too. It's been a while and i'm not getting any younger, so even if we can have just the one will be a huge blessing for us both.
You poor thing. Massive to you. Sounds like you've been through the ringer with your damaged house, buliding a new one, fidind somewhere to say and your poor son. I hope things start falling into place for you very soon.
A massive congrats to you and your weight loss Hun. That's fantastic news. If you can do it, so can I. You must be feeling on top of the world right now. Good for you.
That's excellent that they've picked up why you M/C. I wish I could have answers as to why I M/C. And it's great that everything else came back negative. It would be great if they had a clinic like that here in Perth. We never have anything here.
And I hope you caught eggy on time. for a BFP.
H&W: 70% is still good odds, Babe so please don't give up hope. Will you take the Dr's advice and try IVF for maybe one cycle?
MATALEE: Thanks Sweet, but I don't have the HyCoSy till tuesday. Just waiting for stupid AF to bugger off which should be sunday.
Good luck in your TWW. I've just finished mine and it was the worst. I don't want to go through that again unless there's a BFP waiting for me at the end.
18-02-2011 10:13 #485
I had my fs app yesterday, he didnt say much just not to try to get preg for the next 3 months then come back and see him. While i was there i started to get really bad pains (like gas in my tum) he said oh it prob just gas...anyhoo drove home some how, the pain was getting worse and by the time i got home was almost in tears. I took some pain killers and lay down with my hotbag. My 2pm app for nails turned up which i totally forgot about, so i went ahead and preped and rebalanced her nails, got one hand done and i passed out....how embarassing. It wasnt for long, but she is coming back today for me to finish her nails.
As she left i got out my chair and it felt like id wet myself, i went to the loo and was bleeding heeps. Now af isnt due for another 2 weeks and i thought i Od yesterday or the day before. So i dont know what this is, feels like another mc but prob just my body doing its tripple lindy thing it does. So frustrating....is this a common thing after mc was supose to be cd22
19-02-2011 15:13 #486
OMG! Are you okay? How scary. Did you go back to the Dr's to find out what happened? I think you should. Do you think it could be another M/C? I honestly would go back to the Dr's and get that sorted out. Don't muck around Sweetie. In the mean time, rest up and take care.
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20-02-2011 18:19 #487Member
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hi to everyone i havent posted in awhile. Life in my house at present has been met with ups n downs his and lows . my dp brother was killed tragically in a car accident 3 weeks ago and its a sad and difficult time.in the mean time i have had a fs appointment on thursday thinking i would just have a general chat and let him know that iv had a clomid free cycle and probably am looking at 12 months left to try for baby no 4. well he gave me a scan and my folliies were 13mm on cd 12 and was really pleased with my progesterone levels from previous cycle and now wants to scan me on monday as everything is looking good. he then preceded to say make sure you have intercourse over the weekend . well i said to him i have already started on cd12 lol so dp and i are having a grand ol time and trying to put some smiles on sad faces . anyhow we will get through we have a great support network in family and friends . im now on cd 15 i have done 3 opks and yesterday was a positive dark line and today the 2nd line was way darker than the first line so im now ovulating as we speak and im still doing the acuputure which i love. for the first time in many years my last af was 7 days long and my acupunturist said that was a good sign in blood flow is what i need short cycle isn so good she recommends losts of blood loss for healty ovulation. so im not quite in the 2ww yet am feeling good i have my we can catch our little eggy as iv been in here for exactly 12 months and i really would like to join a due in thread. some of you ladies are still with me and i wish you such successes its time we popped on out . well good luck il pop back in soon.
22-02-2011 16:12 #488
Hi ya Darlings! Hope we are all well today. Sorry no personals as i'm still helping DH with the boat and i'm not in a very good frame of mind last couple of days.
The boat is coming along well. Was helping DH with it last couple of days. Have been cutting the locker doors and sanding them back. It's going back to the boat builders this arvo for some more alli work. Can't believe how great it's looking. It's finally starting to look like a decent boat. Still has quite a bit of work to be done, but you can't rush these things.
Have been feeling very lonely and last couple of days. AF left on saturday and DH and I still haven't BD yet because he's so busy with the boat and ends up being very tired. So that upsets me and I end up crying myself to sleep. He says that he misses DTD with me, but he can't be bothered because he's so knackerd. Makes the both of us feel like $hit. He has promised me though that next trip he comes home and we get the boat back, we can actually christen it on the terms that I have to be quiet because everything will echo in the cabin! Talk about mission impossible!
I have my HyCoSy appointment this arvo which makes matters even worse. Haven't been sleeping well because of it. I know it's not a big deal, but the last time I had a scan, they found a large polyp and I had to go for surgery and then the time before that I lost my second baby. I don't want anymore bad news. But on the upside, at least i'll finally get some answers as to why i'm still not UTD..................hopefully.
I honestly don't know what is wrong with me. I've been very emotional, cranky and moody and i've lost my self esteem and motivation. It doesn't help that DH told me this morning that he is more determined than ever to have a baby with me and want's to know what's up with me? How can I answer that when I don't even know myself? Makes me more upset knowing that it's because of me we don't have a baby yet.
Okay, sorry about the long rant. I'd better get back to helping DH with the boat. Hope you all have a great day today. Take care. xx
22-02-2011 19:04 #489
Oh sweetie!! Big hugs for you x x
How did the scan go??
I'm thinking of you x
23-02-2011 14:34 #490
H&W: Unfortunately all did not go well yesterday. I've been hit and hit hard. Firstly they couldn't get the tube in because my cervix wouldn't open so they had to get a clamp to help it open and it hurt so bad that I hurt poor DH's hand because I squeezed it so hard. She had to use 2 tubes and they just kept bending, so the balloon was partially inserted using the second tube. Then they did the scan an found out that I have a fibroid in my uterus. They actually weren't too concerned about that and said that it shouldn't stop me from getting UTD. But then they found out that not 1 but both of my tubes are blocked because the solution was just pooling in my uterus! I am absolutely gutted, shocked, heart broken and can't stop . And to make matters worse, I can't see my Dr until the 14th March! I haven't had a decent sleep in days and i'm totally exhausted. I am glad that after all these years I finally have an answer as to why i'm can't fall pregnant, but it's still a massive shock to hear it. Plus DH's flight got canceled, so I picked him back up this morning so he's with me which is fantastic. But still, i'm in a daze right now and am wandering around like a lost sole or zombie. I know this can be fix, but it's a real shock to the system and knowing that it's setting us back in having kids is really upsetting.
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