Yay for a BFP. Do another one just to make sure and then go the doctors and ask for a BT. that it's good news for you.
It is. I think that if i'd had some answers i'd be handleing it a lot better than I am now. I'm upset, frustrated, angry, annoyed and everything else in between. And then a friend or family member says their UTD and it's like twisting the dagger in deeper. It's such a horrible feeling. My appointment is on the 15th. So hope it's good news that I hear.
Go the doctors and get a BT. It will put your mind at ease so you're not all panicy. I really do hpe that things work out for you.
Hi to the rest of you ladies. Hope you had a great day.
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06-11-2010 12:51 #293
Oh Sweetheart. All I want to do right now is come over and give you a big hug. You poor thing. It would be so hard for you right now. At a time like this you should be on top of the world, but having al sorts of thoughts and emotions going through your head must be aweful. I guess right now it's in the hands of God and only he can decide whether he is going to bless you with a little one after cruely taking away your last. I hope this time he does. I'm sending you lots of good luck, and for you Babe.
If you want to talk, just PM me okay.
06-11-2010 13:29 #294
Catkin- i know all to well the depressed feeling after loss and d&c...i fell pg the first time on the pill...but lost it and had a d&C without af i fell pregnant for the 2nd time...and lost that bub but it was due to a chromosomal abnormality...i was always worried it was because i got pg too soon...however without another af i fell pg again for the 3rd time...and this pg has been 'normal' and perfecrt...however in the back of my mind i freaked out not having af before...but i went to a specialist who told me our bodies are amazing things and we would not fall pg if it werent ready to...if you are utd know that it wont mean a definite mc you have as much chance of a perfect pg as anyone else....some people say if uve had a mc u have a high % of having another one...this is just NOT TRUE!!!
I hope ive kinda given you some insight into my story...no1 can tell you how to feel...alot of the time drs tell us to wait 1-3 af because of emotional reasons for us not being ready...and maybe this is how you r feeling now...but know so many women are going through or have gone through what you are and you r not alone!
06-11-2010 19:54 #295Senior Member
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Sending you lots of sticky vibes!
The positive side to all this I suppose, even if bubs doesnt stick is that she has recognised that I have a progesterone issue and will put me on clomid next cycle to boost ovulation and my natural progesterone..
Hope everyone is well. It is amazing that what we are all made to think is simple (getting pregnant) is one of the hardest things of all...
07-11-2010 12:37 #296
I was in the same boat. I was too sacre to try even though we got the okay from the doctor. But only your body can tell you if bub will stick or not. No doctor can predict what is exactly happening inside us. Everyone of us is different. But you stressing out like that will definitely not help the situation. You have to let nature take it's course now. If it's meant to be it's meant to be. But I really do hope and pray that this one is meant to be.
That's great that your HPT line is darker. That's definitely a good sign. Don't stress about the cramps just yet. As long as there is no bleeding, you should be okay.
But it's great that you have an upside if it's not sticky, but keep a positive outlook. You never know what might happen.
I know. We spend our youth trying to NOT fall PG and now we're doing everything in our power to be PG. How the world changes as we get older.
Hope everyone is enjoying their sunday and has a great week.
07-11-2010 13:31 #297
Ezekielsmum Congratulations on your positive. Best of luck for an uneventful 9 months and a healthy bub.
KazzyC Congratulations on your result too. I hope that you have a happy healthy and sticky bub this time around.
AJGirl08 I know how frustrating it is for you when your cycle tries to play silly buggers. I am sick of my doing that too.
PA80 Sorry that your AF showed up I hope that next month is your month.
Hopefulmum2b Sorry that AF is such a witch to you. I hope that she leaves very soon and that you will have your positive result next month.
AFM I had to go to a Employment Medical the other day and the doctor there notice that I appear to have a goiter. So now my DH and I are wondering if this is why I have been tired, moody, having trouble getting (and staying) pregnant and a list of other things too. I have made an appointment with our GP to get it checked. Yesterday we had our 18 month old nephew visit, I had so much fun with him but then once he left (and all of today) I have been feeling really down. We had to go and do some shopping today and at one point I just wanted to sit down in the middle of the shop and cry. I don't really know why I am feeling like this. I have had a couple of instances of spotting late yesterday (and today) which I am not happy about in the slightest as AF is not due for at least 2 more weeks and I hope that she doesn't decide to show up early again.
Hi to anyone I have missed and it is good to see that we are getting a few more these days too lets hope they keep coming and that they are sticky babies.
07-11-2010 14:32 #298
Thank you all I do feel better for what you've told me, and I really really needed some positivity. It would appear that I've no trouble becoming pregnant so, even if I do loose this one too, at least I can try again quickly!
07-11-2010 20:00 #299Senior Member
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Thought i would pop in and say hi!
Ezekielsmum and KazzyC congrats on your bfp's! Fingers crossed everything turns out well
Jazz.. good to hear you might finally get some answers. Hopefully you will and a gorgeous bub is on the way for you xx
Hi to everybody else! Hope everybody is staying healthy and getting closer to a super sticky bub xxx
08-11-2010 12:11 #300
Thanks Jazz. AF has long gone. Just disappointed that DH comes home probably 2 days after I O, so that's this cycle out for us. It sucks when he's away and i'm laying an egg. How other women who have DH's working away and still get UTD is beyond me. I wish I was one of them
Hope they can sort that problem out for you soon.
I know how you feel. I had to babysit my niece and nephew saturday night and as I was tucking them into bed my niece says "I love you" so I said I love you back, and then my nephew from his room yelled out, "No I love you more". I left both of their rooms and burst into tears just wondering if i'm ever going to have that. Am I ever going to hear my son or daughter say, "I love you mum."? It broke my heart.
That's what we're here for Cat. It's good that you don't have a problem falling PG. Wish it would happen to me. I'm glad that you're feeling a little bit more positive now.
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