Oh lealove I am just so so sorry to hear that!! How devastating for you!!
Hope your dr can give you some answers!!! Take time to grieve Hun!! I am so sorry! Xo
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14-07-2010 12:55 #211
14-07-2010 13:24 #212
Oh Leala I'm so sorry to read your news. Take care of yourself. I hope you get some answers as to why your little angels couldn't stay with you. So sad for you.
14-07-2010 13:33 #213
im so sorry to hear your news!!! these things are never easy no matter how many times it happens!!
i miscarried in April this yr and tried to do it naturally...2 weeks later i was still bleeding and it was so difficult cos all i wanted was closure that it was over and i could move on....i had to have a D&C after a scan showed there was still tissue in the cervix, after the d&c i felt better than ever i had my closure and there was no more pain and the bleeding lasted 3 days!! so personally gd forbid it happend to me again i would have a d&c straight away...its fast and recovery is easier...and you know for sure everything is out and you are healthy again!..
i decided we were gonna start trying again...i was convinced that the first pregnancy was to test we were ready...and that i would get pregnant again quite soon after the d&c...infact 2 weeks later i got pregnant (our wedding night ) and this pregnancy hasnt been easy emotionally...infact i feel quite detached from it as im scared to get attached incase the worst happens again....but my scan last week showed everyhting was healthy and in the right place...so.
good luck...make the choice you feel is right for you!
lots of hugs
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14-07-2010 13:50 #214
oh lealalove big
shadow yep i was due 14th of dec, i came and started chatting in due in dec at the start. was also due in march(just gone) and chatted a little in that thread too.
i honestly feel in my gut that this time ive got a sticky one but my mind is going crazy with irrational thoughts. every twinge has me worrying. any lack of symptoms has me worrying. the whole thing is just one big panic. and i feel a little ripped off to be honest. ive wanted this for so long and now i almost feel nothing. i feel detatched and numb. i feel like i dont want to feel cause i dont want to ge hurt again and on the flip side i feel like im missing out on what should be my happiness and excitement because im too scared to allow myself to have it. silly huh. 7 sleeps till my scan
14-07-2010 13:56 #215
Oh Lealalove I am so very sorry for your loss. It is such a terrible time and really nothing on earth makes you feel any better. Sending you so many hugs Both of our m/c were completely missed m/c (first baby was 8 weeks, I was 10.5, second baby was 6 weeks, I was 8) and for both I had D&C's. I agree with TSG2011 in that the quicker you have some sort of closure the easier it is to move on. Not that it is easy in any way, but I felt like a chapter had closed once I knew the pregnancy was gone and I could try move on with life and look to TTC again. It is so sad though and so hard on you emotionally my heart really goes out to you.
DH & I went and had every test run on us under the sun and saw a fertility specialist and all the results came back completely clear. Nothing wrong. Which at the time I found shattering and hard to deal with because I was hoping there would be something easy they could "fix" in me so I knew it would never happen again.
We have gone on to fall pg again the first month we tried (2 AF's after D&C) and I am now 17 weeks along with a perfect healthy little baby, I was so scared all through the start of the pregnancy I just expected history to repeat itself again. This time I ended up seeing a chinese herbal medicine doctor straight after my D&C and had acupuncture and herbs and followed her advice to the letter with changing my diet and lifestyle and I think for us this has made the difference. If you would be inclined to try anything like that I would say it is definitely a positive experience and helped me immensely, even helped me to deal with my grief & stress levels because she is such a lovely warm kind person. It felt like she was the only person who was super positive for me and really confident she could help us. But I know everyone is different and what is right for one person may not suit another.
Once again I am so very sorry for your loss.
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14-07-2010 13:58 #216Senior Member
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Lealalove I am so sorry. I hope your doctor does tests to get some answers.
I have escapedto maccas for lunch. Work is annoying me. My internal scan today showed my cervix is shortening which isn't good. I'm in progesterone cream to help relax my uterus so fingers crossed. I am now on weekly visits and work wasn't impressed i don't think.
Welcome shadow so sorry for your loss but congrats on the new bfp
14-07-2010 14:00 #217
14-07-2010 14:04 #218
Doesn't sound good about your cervix shortening Fireflies but good to know they are monitoring you so closely and will no doubt be able to keep an eye on it for you. Tell work to go for a long walk off a short pier!!! What do they actually matter in the greater scheme of life?! Nasty people! Enjoy maccas, I had a tandoori wrap for lunch - they are about my only craving and I eat one a week! LOL.
14-07-2010 14:15 #219Senior Member
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Thanks melameen. Only 41days left at work so who cares.
They can be annoyed now not my fault someone else quit and they are short staffed. Plus I'll hve a doc note so they really can't say anything.
And yay for free wifi at maccas lol
14-07-2010 15:29 #220
lealove- so so sorry to read your news . on the positive side there are lots of examples of people who have had one or more missed m/c that go on to have a healthy baby. I know this is cold comfort right now but just want to remind you that there is hope.
hi to everyone else reading.
as for melameen's enquiry re: capsules- i think i will get one this time round as it will be easy to carry the baby around while i have a 3 year old to get around too. i'm just not a fan of big prams and this way they can stay asleep (in theory) in the capsule while i get other stuff done. last time we just had a car seat and so we were constantly waking her up to get her in or out.
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