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    Default Im having a termination on friday... SAD..

    Im having a termination next Friday, pretty sad about it. I dont want more kids but I alsio do not want to have a termination. I am not giving the baby up. I just feel sort of numb. I dont know what to think. I feel like someone is sitting on my chest its scarying the crap out of me. I sort of just wanna chat to someone. I dont know what I want but I cant believe i am in the situation. I am 6 weeks

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    I am also having the silliest thougts because they told me they will need to do an ultrasound im scared there will be two and I will change my mine. I dont want to change my mind but they said that the ultrasound is a necessity. How can I not let this affect me.

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    Oh Hun, Im really sad that you're going through this. I'm sure you'll make the decision that's best for you. My thoughts are with you during this tough time.

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    can i ask why you would keep two but not one?

    you dont have to watch the ultrasound if that makes you feel worse. good luck with your decision, i can't imagine how you must be feeling right now

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    I couldnt come in here and not post hun. I dont know what to tell you but Im glad you have come here to speak about it

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    oh babe wat a tricky situation

    Firstley i wanna give u hugs x million

    I didnt think they would do an ultrasound as the mother seeing the feotus would make any mother change her mind usally,have u seeked any councelling? I also thought that it was a mandatory before and after? I may be wrong as ive personally never had one

    How does ur other half feel about this?

    I would seriously consider getting some kind of councelling though x

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    I hope somebody here can give you some information regarding counselling hotlines etc, so you can speak to a professional xx

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    My other half said He is convinced, he doesnt want any more. I wouldnt keep two but for some reason i feel like it will make it a harder decision like I am doing something doubly wrong. I dont or cant really have the councelling cause it costs more and I can barely cover the cost of this as it is.

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    I had an abortion because OTHERS thought i should. because they THOUGHT it was best for ME

    i regret it.. i love my babies .. i would have loved that baby... i miss that baby.. i never got over it.

    I woke up screaming in the recovery room

    DONT DO IT if you dont want to with all your heart and mind.

    If you do want to because YOU want to.. i will support that.

    but NOT because anyone else wants you to.

    bless

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    Oh I do want it. Because I do not want any other kids I struggle enough with 2. I am always the one looking after them. I work hard and never seem to have anything spare. Not money nor time nor emotion, i am literally drained I spend my day working, cooking playing then sleeping, I cant add a babie to the mix. I know I want no sorry have to get this done the only thing is I cant use most contraceptions the doctor did a test saying I cannt tolerate estrogen or something but yet im too young, 23 to have something permanent done.
    How can I make these thoughts go away. I know in my heart of hearts I cant continue this which is F because I always said I wouldnt do this. I just wish they can do it tomorrow because I want to stop thinking about it, but they said i cant do it till im at least 7 weeks.


 

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