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    Just a quick one this morning!

    Good luck today LBP with your OB appointment!

    Good luck mini-Nic with the BT results (option 3 all the way!)

    And good luck tomorrow mrsshe! I'm sure it will be all good news.

    to everyone else.

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    Well girls, unfortunately for us, option 1 came true... my HCG levels dropped to 18 on Sat, so we have lost yet another bub.

    I know that I shouldnt be so upset, I mean the level was so low to begin with and I was only just pregnant, but I just feel like such a failure.
    I am going to ring the specialist again and see if there are more tests that can be done... there must be something wrong with us.

    I just feel so miserable, like this is never ever going to happen for us.
    Sorry for the miserable post girls...

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    nic i am so so sorry to hear your levels have dropped


    Ok girls im really sorry but i need your help, ive hit the wall. Not sure whats happened but its all hit me. I cant stop crying my scan is in the morning and ive pretty much talked myself into them telling me its going to happen again. I dont want to give this bub up. I dont want to go tomorrow and look at their faces and hear their words. I cant snap myself out of it, and ive got a pounding headache.
    Ive been researching recurrance risk rates on the net and nothing is making me feel better. I just believe we are one of those very rare people who are going to have the recurring form.
    What am i going to do? How am i going to go through it? I wish all you guys were here with me now

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    Oh mini-Nic nooooo

    I am so sad for you and DH. I can't imagine how much pain you must be in right now

    It WILL happen for you though, I know it will I just wish it had been this time and this bub.

    Sending you all the in the world

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    MrsShe it's okay to feel the way you do, you are just practicising a little self preservation. Everything WILL be okay at your scan though, and this time tomorrow you and DH will be on cloud nine together

    I hope DH is looking after you tonight, I would feel exactly the same way as you do had I been through what you have been

    Are you up to scheduling a few activities to fill in time this evening and try and take your mind off things? Family board games? Movie? Takeaway? Bubble baths? I know they are all just silly trivial suggestions, wish I could be more help

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    I'm so sorry mini-Nic, I was really hoping that this would be the one for you. I hope that your Dr is supportive and offers further tests. Did you get your partners DNA fragmentation analysed? This is something that is sometimes missed as it's such a new area (my first FS didn't mention it but the second insisted before we started ivf because we'd had a previous mc).

    mrsshe - 95% 95% 95%. I know I can't talk - it's easier said than done and you won't feel that relief until after they tell you it looks good. Will you find out straight away? I hardly slept the night before my NT scan or the night after (I think I was so wound up it took days to calm down again). I also felt that pang when my OB told me that now I was in the 2nd trimester, my chance of mc drops to 5% (I was thinking "Hey! My FS and geneticist told me 2%!") Sending you lots of for nice strong bones.

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    Mini nic - I'm really sorry to hear about your loss. Life is just not fair! Please take care.

    Mrs She - good luck tomorrow. I'm praying that it all goes well for you.

    AFM - Things didn't go so well at my OB visit - sac was not looking good and he couldn't see a HB. What was there was tiny whereas at my u/s 4 weeks ago u/s I could even clearly see there was something in there. He has given me the option to go for a specialist ultrasound - (to confirm the inevitable) which I will do late tomorrow. Looks like we will be booking a D&C after that. Unfortunately I'm running out of years as the last two bubs took over a year to conceive Sorry for bringing everyone down today. Here's hoping there's no more sad news in this thread for a very long time.

    for everyone.

    Trying to decide whether to go to work tomorrow - I hadn't told anyone there about the pregnancy.

    LBP
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    mini nic - this really isn't fair, I am so sorry that you have to go through this hell yet again.

    LBP - I really hope that you're bub sticks, I am so sorry that your scan didn't go well. I have my for you.

    MrsShe - Not long now, please don't be upset I wish we were all there so we could go out and have a great night in sunny QLD and keep our mind off your scan. Things will work out fine. IKWYM and every time I have had a scan, have not slept the night before thinking how can I go back to square one if I lose this bub. Please update us ASAP when you get the good news ... I have to wait another 4 weeks til my morph scan so hope bubs is ok...it is so far away.

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    mini-nic - i am so sorry honey, This is just not fair - so upset for you.

    LBP - I'm sorry things didn't go well with your scan - is there a chance the specialist ultrasound will show something different? Thinking of you and sending

    Mrsshe - will be thinking of you tomorrow - i am sure its going to be ok. I understand how you are feeling - every time before i have gone in for a scan my brain tries out hearing the worst possible news......it's your mind's way of protecting and preparing but i really believe you won't have that to contend with this time. Hang in there xx

    AFM - had my 20 week scan. All went well - phew - and no issues at all with growth/development. Bubs was even measuring 21 weeks! We didn't find out the gender although i have a feeling i saw a little boy thing..... have to look on the DVD tonight and see if i can freeze frame it!!! DP doesn't want to know so will have to do that after he has gone to bed. I am just so curious now!!!

    hi to everyone i haven't mentioned personally and love to all of you

    sue xx

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    I'm so sorry LBP that the news wasn't good. Please let us know how you go tomorrow and hang in there! We'll be here for you and please don't feel that you are bringing people down.

    GUF - glad all went well for you.


 

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