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    Question Acceptable flirting between your partner and other women?

    I just found a few comments DF left on facebook for some girl (a work collegue, young and beautiful) and im not sure if I consider it okay. I have also found out he has got the flirt application on facebook and listed that he wants to meet some hotties and friends to chat to. He did say he is engaged though, but didnt mention he had a child.

    What would you say is acceptable flirting both IRL and on the net?

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    Flirting IRL and in cyber land is not on when in a committed relationship.

    I would be cranky

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    Quote Originally Posted by poshBecks View Post
    Flirting IRL and in cyber land is not on when in a committed relationship.

    I would be cranky
    i wouldnt be happy, does he know you have seen it?

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    I think everyones idea of flirting is different. I would not like it if my dh did that but then I wouldn't say anything as I wouldn't want to get done for looking at his facebook messages! Gotta ask why you're snooping though?

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    He doesnt know that I have seen them. I am a bit cranky but I dont want to seem like I am jealous or anything.

    I wasnt snooping. This girl (who i also know and am a friend of) posted some of her pics and I was looking through and saw his comments underneath them.

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    I wouldn't be able to handle any flirting if I was engaged imho. IRL or online. Especially as you have a child together

    GeorgiaAnne- i don't think she was snooping, maybe just looking at his facebook page and saw it?

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    i would be a bit annoyed, but atleast he doesnt hide it from you.i'd be giving him a if it was my Partner.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lollie86 View Post
    He doesnt know that I have seen them. I am a bit cranky but I dont want to seem like I am jealous or anything.

    I wasnt snooping. This girl (who i also know and am a friend of) posted some of her pics and I was looking through and saw his comments underneath them.
    I think you should talk to him about it hun.

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    no flirting is acceptable in our household whether in person or on the net. We have an "open" policy - we can both read each others messages/emails/etc whenever we want. This works for us

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    Yeah Im thinking I might give him a piece of my mind. I dont see why he would need a flirt application on facebook anyways when he is in a relationship?

    He's not hiding it, which means he must think its okay.


 

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