+ Reply to Thread
Page 1 of 2 12 LastLast
Results 1 to 10 of 20
  1. #1
    Join Date
    Oct 2006
    Posts
    525
    Thanks
    1
    Thanked
    1
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 posts

    Default I don't want to be his mum anymore (huge vent)

    I am sick of being told 10x a day he hates me
    I am sick of being told I am the meanest mum
    I am sick of the constant fighting
    I am sick of all the screaming
    I am sick of not being able to leave the house with him
    I am sick of him telling me I should of let him die (he was a very sick newborn and for some reason he thinks I wanted him to die)
    I am sick of everyone looking down on me for how he acts
    I am sick of the fact everyone thinks it’s my fault his behaviour is bad
    I am sick of the school telling me "he needs medicating"
    I am sick of feeling guilty he was so sick
    I am sick of feeling guilty his father doesn't want anything to do with him
    I am so sick of it all

    I don’t want this anymore. I have done everything I can for him. I have done everything everyone has said will help and nothing has changed. It is destroying my family and I can’t cope anymore.

  2. #2
    Join Date
    Feb 2007
    Posts
    3,627
    Thanks
    3
    Thanked
    5
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 posts
    i dont have any advice, but i thought you could use one of these.

  3. #3
    Join Date
    Sep 2005
    Posts
    9,317
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked
    8
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 postsAmethyst Star - 5,000 posts
    oh, honey


  4. #4
    Join Date
    Jul 2006
    Posts
    6,202
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked
    0
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 postsAmethyst Star - 5,000 posts
    Oh my... I don't know what to say. But couldn't read without replying.
    I'm so sorry you feel this way .

  5. #5
    our little treasures's Avatar
    our little treasures is offline Gorgeous family wonderful friends <3 life!
    Join Date
    Mar 2005
    Posts
    8,116
    Thanks
    40
    Thanked
    4
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 postsAmethyst Star - 5,000 posts
    Sounds like your having a really bad day or year!! You need lots of I don't really have any advice as I only have young children.

  6. #6
    Join Date
    Aug 2007
    Posts
    2,453
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked
    1
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 posts
    I dont have advice either. i have never been in your shoes..
    But:

  7. #7
    Join Date
    Dec 2005
    Posts
    2,531
    Thanks
    1
    Thanked
    9
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 posts
    I'm so sorry you are going through a hard time. I don't know your curcumstances, but have you tried every resource for help? Its not your job alone to try and cope with everything...

    Big hugs to you...

  8. #8
    Fuchsia!'s Avatar
    Fuchsia! is offline Winner 2009 - Best Signature
    Winner 2010- The Best Signature Award
    Shmoooooooosh! AKA jaxcoop
    Join Date
    Jan 2007
    Posts
    11,907
    Thanks
    309
    Thanked
    814
    Reviews
    1
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 postsAmethyst Star - 5,000 postsEmerald Star - 10,000 posts
    oh dear...im sorry you are going through this. I will give you some hugs

    Monnblossom has a point is there anyone that can help you? maybe give you a break for awhile.

    I hope you feel better soon

  9. #9
    Join Date
    Apr 2006
    Posts
    2,524
    Thanks
    6
    Thanked
    1
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 posts
    oh dear....sounds like you're very run down....i think you need a strong cuppa, a friendly ear, and a shoulder to cry on.

    *breath in....and out*

    there are lots of people who can help you....im sure your son doesn't have any idea how much he is hurting you right now...but stay calm...and remember....HE LOVES YOU NO MATTER WHAT HE SAYS

  10. #10
    Myztik's Avatar
    Myztik is offline My April Fools baby
    Winner 2009- Biggest Post-Awards Whinger
    Winner 2010- Biggest Computer Nerd
    Join Date
    Jul 2006
    Posts
    30,329
    Thanks
    2,971
    Thanked
    1,567
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 postsAmethyst Star - 5,000 postsEmerald Star - 10,000 postsRuby Star - 15,000 postsDiamond Star - 20,000 posts
    I can relate to a lot of your post. My ds1's behaviour has had me so close to breaking point on more than one occasion. Every time I hear his teacher say 'can I talk to you for a minute' I just want to crawl under a rock and cry.
    I've recently watched the PPP dvd and am on the waiting list to do the course. The dvd itself was very insightful.


 

Similar Threads

  1. huge vent
    By jjpbd in forum Single Parents
    Replies: 10
    Last Post: 02-12-2012, 22:59
  2. Shutting down. I'm not coping anymore. Vent.
    By Fluffbum in forum Pregnancy & Birth General Chat
    Replies: 12
    Last Post: 19-09-2012, 22:45
  3. HUGE VENT: So over it!!!
    By MissWinter in forum General Health
    Replies: 5
    Last Post: 19-02-2012, 09:19

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts

ADVERTISEMENT

ADVERTISEMENT

FEATURED SUPPORTER
Impressionable KidsImpressionable Kids are Australia's leader in framed children's memorabilia and specialise in framed baby hand and feet ...

ADVERTISEMENT