The first weeks with a new baby can be tough. You spend all your waking hours (and a lot of non-waking hours) attending to the needs of your newborn and you don’t get much back.
Don’t worry – it will be all worth it when you see that first smile this month sometime! Your heart will melt and you’ll forget all about the frequent night waking, the seemingly endless crying and even the poo explosion in the car seat.
Also, this month your baby will start to vocalise in ways other than crying – so expect to hear some ‘coo-ing’ and ‘goo-ing’!
How is baby going?
At this age, your baby needs about 16-17 hours of sleep over the course of 24 hours. She may have one six-hour sleep (hopefully at night!).
You may notice that your once-sleepy newborn is becoming more alert and can stay awake for longer. Until now she might have drifted off anywhere, any time – on grandpa’s shoulder, in her pram at a noisy party or on the floor at your friend’s house. Now, she might only sleep when you ‘put her to sleep’.
To make sure she doesn’t get overtired, you should learn to recognise your baby’s tired signs and start preparing her for sleep when you see them. She will probably be ready to sleep after 90 minutes of being awake so start to look for tired signs before then. Tired signs might include jerky arm and leg movements, pulling away, difficulty focussing, clenched fists, grizzly cry, rubbing eyes and yawning.
Your baby is still very tiny – and so is their tummy – so he or she will still need feeds every 2-4 hours. Hopefully, by now though, you’ll have ironed out some of the early feeding issues and it is all starting to get a bit easier. If you still have questions why not ask them in the baby feeding section of our forum.
If you’re breastfeeding but want your baby to accept the occasional bottle of expressed milk, this month might be the best time to give it a try. At five weeks your baby is said to be old enough to accept a bottle without risk of nipple confusion and young enough to accept it without much protest.
You probably didn’t think you’d be buying toys already, but it might be time to invest in a baby gym or play mat. It’s handy to have somewhere safe and comfy for baby to play and he’ll enjoy watching his toys swing overhead. Try giving your baby a rattle or a similar safe object, as he’ll soon grab objects if you touch them on his palm.
Vaccinations are due when your baby is two months old. Make an appointment with your GP or your local immunisation clinic.
How are you going?
You may be settling in to your new role as a mum but if some days you feel completely overwhelmed (or sometimes completely braindead!) then don’t be afraid to ask for help.
New mothers aren’t expected to do this alone – it is a tough job and you need support and guidance. There’s a saying about it taking a village to raise a child, well, it also takes a village to raise a mother. Sometimes because of distance or isolation it isn’t always possible to have a village of close family and friends always nearby but there are other ways to find your village. This article – it takes a village to raise a mother – explains it perfectly and give tips on finding your village.
5 things to do when you have a one-month old baby
- Try these 5 ways to deal with neck and back aches
- Find sleeping and settling products on our directory
- Read our article on colic and colic relief
- Buying a breast pump? Read our breast pump reviews
- Get some tips on meeting other parents
Please note: All babies are different, these are generic guides and aren’t a substitute for professional medical advice. If you have any concerns, don’t hesitate to contact your health care provider.