how do i deal with this pain

**franni** · 16-01-2006 18:52

my partner left me dismorning
we had a prity okay relasonship
the reason why he left he said he dosent want to be a dad anymore
why would any more just leave there 6 month old daughter
he broke my heart
i dont no how to deal with this pain
anyone have any ideas???

**rynosmum** · 16-01-2006 18:56

Hi Franni,

My heart goes out to you. A break-up is hard enough even when there isn't a baby involved.

Luckily you have your beautiful daughter. Hug her with all your might. Together you will get through this.

My best wishes are with you.

**Seekrit** · 16-01-2006 19:03

Oh Franni. I have no advice.. I just wanted to let you know how sorry I am to hear that. Bubhub is a great forum, you'll find a lot of support here.

**brooke** · 16-01-2006 19:32

franni.. first of welcome to bub hub..
secondly I have no advice only be strong and give all the love you can to your baby girl!
I dont know how some one could just say they dont want to be a dad anymore..
he doesnt have any choice he is a dad... I hope he comes to his senses and realises he is very lucky to be privliged with a beautiful healthy baby girl who no doubt at this stage still Loves him!
BIG HUG to you and you baby!

**heymamma** · 16-01-2006 20:09

hi franni im sorry for you that this has happened.... But if that is the way he feels its prolly best that you find someone better eventually..that will love her as much as you do... " Anyone can be a father, it takes someone special to be a daddy"

**Ffrenchknickers** · 16-01-2006 20:14

I feel for you Franni. I pray that someone who has been in a similar situation comes along for you to connect with. Stay strong and enjoy that precious little bundle

**Crazy Monkey** · 16-01-2006 20:21

So sorry to hear that your partner has left you and your precious little girl... I hope he comes to his senses but in the end he is the one that will be missing out... Sending big hugs your way...

Also, welcome to bubhub, you will get great support hear..

Take care

**JnA** · 16-01-2006 20:23

Hi fanni

I'm sorry to hear what happened. There's no easy answer, give your child all the hugs you need to.

I don't want to offer any false hope, but maybe he is just freaked out by the whole thing and needs some time?

I don't know... sometimes you have to say...

said yes to the wrong man, gave him the wrong finger.

*hugs* to you.