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    Smile would like to have another one

    Well, I want to have another baby soon and it may well happen, but... I am studying this year and after I finish I do want to work a little in the area that I have studied, before having another one. On the other hand, I feel like I want to just go ahead and have one straight after I finish (Nov 07) so that after the bub turns one I can then go back to work casual.
    I miscarried with twins in december, so I will be a little nervous also .

    Not sure, just thought I'd put it out here. Feel free to give your opinion.

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    I can see your dilema, on one hand you want a baby right now, but on the other you want to work, and rightly so.

    After all that study I personally would wait, even a year to get pregnant again, if you don't work straight away after finishing your course it can look bad on your CV, and at least if you work even for a little bit, employers know that you have actually used what you learned in an actual job, not just in theory. I guess it also depends on what you study and how hard it is to find a job in the area...

    In the end though, it's your decision, and your the only one who can decide what is right for you, goodluck!
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    I am in a bit of a similar dilemma. I still have 2 years to go till i finish my degree, but i am happy to finish this year and maybe 6 months next year and hopefully fall pregnant later this year. I don't mind if i have to defer another year or so till i go back. I really wanted to hold out till i finished uni, but i don't want a big gap between kids. I say it's up to you, but whenever you have kids you are either going to have to put your studies on hold or your career at some stage, i want to get my baby making years over and then get stuck into a career.
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    we want another but cause of my health at then moment we are waiting till april next yr im sure you will know when it is the right time to try
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