Hi, I need some advise, it's breaking my heart to see my partner hurting on easter. We have recently had our first child (8months) and my partner has children to 2 other mother, (ist mother 15yrs boys 11girl) 2nd mum 9boy. which he called to speak to the kids and the 1st mother said they dont want to know him. and the 2nd mum said to her son do you want to talk to.....an address him by his first name instead of dad
so on this special day, he didnt get to talk to any of his other children. this is not the firs time this as happen. i say to my partner please dont allow your past to affect our future, the children will come around 1 day. i enjoy seeing all of his children, however i dont want special days to be sad days for our future.
is there anything that can be done to make peace with the mothers, so my partner and his children dont miss out on thier bond?.