I would just like to know if my hubby is lazy or if it is alot of men are that way.
How much does ur hubby help you?
We have 3 kids 5yr old girl 18mth old boy & 7& half mth old boy... I have no family here on the gold coast nore any friends..they are all in syd.
He works 5days a week as most do....but when he gets home wants to sit down & watch TV... I get dinner on the table but ethan & phoenix are always screaming & carrying on as kids do... sometimes dh will get up & help but most of the time i have to ask him to do everything... When the weekend comes round he sits down watchs tv or goes on PC, & i said to him " i've noticed that you get a weekend from work, How come i dont?" He said what do u mean.... I said well on sat sun..you sit & relax but do i ...no i do washing take care of kids fold washing etc...mums work... he does help with the kids & some stuff but not much...& if he does i have always had to nag at him to do it.
E.g We finished dinner last night...he helped clear the table but instead of helping with the dishes went & layed down on the lounge room floor!!! I said "what are you doing?" he replies " im just relaxing for a bit" now i was like What!!!! .. well geee how i would love too do that also..but im afraid we have 3 kids to get ready for bed dishes to be done bottles to be made etc.
Then all i get is a filthy look!!!
Am i wrong here...do i ask to much??
Do u think i was to harsh there?