Ok, so I had this really close friend (I'll call her K) and she and DPs best mate (we'll call him C) were together on and off for a year or so. She's also DS's godmother. It was very rare for us to go more than 2 or 3 days without seeing eachother.
Anyway, she met another guy while out one night, broke up with C, and within a week was practically living with this new guy. Because of the close relationship between DP and C, I guess K thought that I'd take his side over hers. Truth is, I didn't take sides at all, but I was disappointed over the way she treated C. So K and I haven't really had much to do with eachother since this happened about 4 months ago.
Now, at the time I was of the opinion that if that's how she wanted to be, then I didn't care and that if I'd been given the chance, I would have approved of her with this new guy. As it was, I found out through someone else.
But truth of the matter is, I do care. I want her to be happy, I want DS to know her, I want to be able to catch up for coffee and hang out.
I've been thinking about it all night, and I emailed her, just basically saying hi and did she want to catch up but I got an auto reply saying that she's on leave for 2 weeks.
I guess what I'm after is this :- I have tried to contact her before now, but she's just been really formal and weird. Should I leave it be? Or should I txt her and try once more because maybe she's not sure how to handle our friendship after all that's happened?
Oh and that new guy? Well they're now living together and by all accounts, she's deliriously happy
Thanks in advance guys, I really need some help here
(P.S. She also thinks that I don't trust her due to a betrayal a long time ago, even though I've assured her that there's no problem with that.)