Is he lying?? opinions plz!

[Emcee]

ok so this guy is my ex. butttt we still talk n he still sayz how much he loves me and our baby seth im also the one that dosent want to see him but he saz he will never give up and wants us to be a family so this makes it confusing (i dont think we will get back 2gether, i dont really want to) but i just want to kno the truth!! dunno y it bothers me but i have to kno..
Yesterday we were msg each other and then i get a msg from hes phone saying "yeh. Distance dun matter hehe. Y wud i think ur not gud looking.." so i then call him and said wats up with that msg, n he starts laughing and he said hes friend ran out of credit so had to use hes fone and accidently sent it to me, i then re read it n i said 2him that the way he types hes words and talks exacly the same, the spelling of words etc n he saz well the words r saved so if u type it it will just come up.. so now im thinking geez hes good and thiz guy is sooo smooth As in u wud not tell if he was lying or not he is that good! but also this could very well be the truth... hes never from wat i know been the type to think he can get anyone and basicly hes not those player types of guys... but i dunno and i said if it was from ur friend then y didnt he say who its frm in the msg.. n hes answer is coz he already sent a msg b4 n said who it was. He said he he wud never look to anyone else bcoz he really wants to sort himself out n prove that he will be ok (he has anger issues) i dunno i just wanna kno... wat gets me is how he wrote it sounds like him.. Did he lie or didnt he n is there ways to find out that he didnt u think???? am i over reacting?? damn how annoying!

[Mum&bubs]

Aww hun that must be driving you nuts. Well honestly from the sounds of your story it does sound like it was from him. Just the way you said they type the same things & the message didn't say who it was from (even though.. he did say his friend had sent another msg previously)

But that's what I think anyways but I don't know this guy. You really just have to go with your gut if he's not letting on. You know him better than any of us do, good luck I hope for your sake that he's not lying!!!

[Meljem]

Hi there, is there any way you can check his phone when he is over? I know its sneaky, but it would put your mind at ease, then you would know if he was sending messages to other women, because if he is, you should forget about him. Goodluck though xxx

[Mum&bubs]

Yep and look up his 'sent msgs' Yes it is sneaky but if you have reason to believe he is taking you for a fool go for it!

[Snuffys Mum]

Don't check his phone, you'd only be lowering yourself to his level. Just walk away and don't look back. He's playing you and to be sucked into his game just makes you the fool.

[RoarsomeMum]

He's your X and you do not want to get back together with him, so what difference does it make if he is lying or not??

It sounds like you dont want him, but are desperate to know that he still wants you.. Thats a bit sad IMO

[oleander]

I couldn't really understand your post too well but I would say yes, he is lying because he is male and that's what they do best.

[damien's mum]

Yep and look up his 'sent msgs' Yes it is sneaky but if you have reason to believe he is taking you for a fool go for it!

Totally agree!!!

[Emcee]

well i cant check his fone, because he erases all his msgs, which if u were hiding something u would. and as for someone saying thats abit sad in the previous post .. actually if ur ex was telling u how badly he wanted to get bak with u n u share a son.. even if u didnt want him bak, u can still have feelings for someone n if they are sayin they want u bak n u see a msg like that most ppl would want to kno wat the truth is and also finding out the truth that he is lying can be a good thing because u can finally say **** off 4good and give u more reason 2have nuthin 2do with him if u get what i mean.