Im SOOOO mad with him!

**aden2005** · 26-01-2007 22:47

my DF that is!!!

Im so mad im fuming!!!

He continues to fall a sleep on the couch night after night instead of coming to bed, i wake up during the night and hes not next to me, so i go and wake him up to which he carrys his slow *** to bed.

Then tonight i logged off and went to wake him up to come to bed with me and he said nah dont want to.

I know it doesnt sound like a big deal, but can u imagine sleeping all by your self night after night knowing your partner would rather sleep on the not so comfy sofa

**oleander** · 26-01-2007 22:49

I love having the whole bed to myself

**aden2005** · 26-01-2007 22:52

Originally Posted by Leila's Mummy

I love having the whole bed to myself

Me too

But its the fact that he'd rather sleep on the sofa than with me

**jessgray** · 27-01-2007 06:03

have you asked him whats going on?

my DP started doing the same thing for a little while when i was preg with ds2 it was just coz he ddint want to wake me up. i tend to wake up and not be able to go to sleep

**MissSparkle** · 30-01-2007 08:00

My DS often falls asleep on the lounge....not meaning to but because he doesn't realise when he's tired.....I think he has sleeping probs but he won't see anyone about it. I dont mind tho....I sleep better alone.

**Mum&bubs** · 30-01-2007 08:08

I know how you feel. If my DF falls asleep on the couch, I get pretty upset. I like to sleep beside him. I think you should ask him what's going on, why he would rather sleep on the couch. Maybe it's because it's been so hot? I know my DF has been sleeping at the end of the bed lately because it's so hot

**KaM** · 30-01-2007 08:13

I used to hate it as well . .Im surprised I was able to conceive Matilda as her "father" more often then not spent all night on the computer while I tried to sleep ..then as I went off to work . .he'd go to bed. .

I used to love the few nights I got to curl up beside him . .

But Id definitely tellhim how you feel . .esp cause it mens so much to you

**javalava** · 30-01-2007 08:19

Originally Posted by YoungMumSteph

My DS often falls asleep on the lounge....not meaning to but because he doesn't realise when he's tired.....I think he has sleeping probs but he won't see anyone about it. I dont mind tho....I sleep better alone.

Hehe i think you mean DP haha

**caz** · 30-01-2007 08:28

I'm the one who would prefer to sleep on the lounge than in the bed next to DF

That's because he goes to bed first and by the time I get to bed he's snoring like a train (He snores that loud, that one time I had the TV up really loud and I could still hear him) I sleep better if i'm on my own, even if that means I sleep on the lounge.

I agree though, if it is bothering you that much, you should say something to him.

**Mummaof2** · 30-01-2007 08:32

Hi aden2005,

I went through the exact same thing. He would say he would be in in 5mins and then next thing i knew i would be getting up to go the toilet and he would be sound asleep on the lounge.

What annoyed me the most were the nights that I would get up and find him asleep on the lounge yet he had found the energy to turn the TV off and get up and go and get a spare blanket and then go back to the lounge. It would have taken more effort to do that then to just come straight to bed.

I started thinking all stupid things and ended up confronting him about as it was eating me up inside. He would say that he didnt know he was falling asleep.....Pffft. You know when your tired and you know when your starting to drift off. He only does it probably once every few weeks now as I put a TV in our room so at least then if he falls asleep he is still in bed with me and not on the lounge and I'm not thinking that he just doesnt want to be with me.

I hope you and your hubby work it out soon.