Geez I am so mad right now! MIL called me (whilst hubby was out) and asks what I am doing and I say that I am feeding my daughter, not that she cares or listens and then she goes on a "woe is me, I am not feeling well" rant. Bit of background- MIL has finished in the last few months treament for breast cancer which was quite severe, however according to her doctor she had the cancer for probably 10 years but due to her refusal to have mammograms or get checked when she experienced pain, she is now in not so good a position in terms of remission. Anyway, as unfortunate as that is and I would never wish that on anyone, she has now decided to use her illness as a strategy to make me feel bad for wanting to move interstate. Basically she kept rambling about how her sons are grown up and nobody needs her or cares about her blah, blah, blah. Normally I would sympathise, but I know for a fact that she has decided to do this as a last ditch effort hoping we will change our minds. I am so ****ed off because she kept saying how our daughter is the most important thing to her (never mind her own sons!) and she can't believe we are going. Then she says she is taking the week off next week and wants me to come and see her, even though I am heavily pregnant, am looking after a 9 month old and have no car! She is so selfish and doesn't care that she is stressing us out or that we have a life! I probably sound like a ***** because she has gone through having cancer, but trust me she could have prevented the severity of it years ago and we did a lot for her at the time she was having treatments so I feel that we have paid our dues to her.