Don't know if this has happened to anyone else, but it is happening to me and its getting to me.
My SIL (Grant's sister) tells his ex (who is now married to someone else) everything that goes on about me and Grant, she knew that we started living together after only a week, she knew I was pregnant and she even knew I had a miscarriage.
Its one thing to bump into her in the street and make small talk but she is telling her personally things, his ex dumped him, why does she need to know waht goes on in our lives? W aren;t speaking to SIL for another reason, it just annoys me coz she doesn't need to know personal sh!t. I am friends with my ex but I don't ring his parents and say "oh who is K sleeping with?" or whatever.
It gets to me coz they have a close relationship (my nieces still call her Aunty G________.
Maybe this is nothing but it isn't to me, my SIL denies it but Grant's ex admits it (they talk via email occasionally which I don't mind and she tells us that she speaks to SIL). I know Grant wouldn't tell her coz he knows how I feel about the situation (though if she asks him about something he won't lie iykwim).
Also my SIL asked my other SIL (Grant's brother's fiance) what we did with the baby bonus after we had Hayley. What business is it of hers? and why couldn't she ask us herself? She thinks that its all Grants funiture coz he works so if we split up he should get it all (we used the bb to buy it) she is a sahm too so she doesn't work (I mean a proper paying job) so does that mean nothing in the house is hers?
She is just a nosey so and so and I'm sick of it.
Also she called child protection on me when Hayley was about 3 months or so and told them a whole heap of bs (I know it was her coz DHS told me themselves and she has also done this to other ppl)
Grant and I went to the Gold Coast last year for new years and told other SIL to take pictures of our house to show DHS (she didn't do it though).
Has this happened to anyone else? How did you deal with it?
BTW, my other SIL doesn't speak to her cos she called DHS on her too.