Sister-in-law speaking to fiance's ex and more

[mum2bubba]

Don't know if this has happened to anyone else, but it is happening to me and its getting to me.

My SIL (Grant's sister) tells his ex (who is now married to someone else) everything that goes on about me and Grant, she knew that we started living together after only a week, she knew I was pregnant and she even knew I had a miscarriage.
Its one thing to bump into her in the street and make small talk but she is telling her personally things, his ex dumped him, why does she need to know waht goes on in our lives? W aren;t speaking to SIL for another reason, it just annoys me coz she doesn't need to know personal sh!t. I am friends with my ex but I don't ring his parents and say "oh who is K sleeping with?" or whatever.

It gets to me coz they have a close relationship (my nieces still call her Aunty G________.
Maybe this is nothing but it isn't to me, my SIL denies it but Grant's ex admits it (they talk via email occasionally which I don't mind and she tells us that she speaks to SIL). I know Grant wouldn't tell her coz he knows how I feel about the situation (though if she asks him about something he won't lie iykwim).

Also my SIL asked my other SIL (Grant's brother's fiance) what we did with the baby bonus after we had Hayley. What business is it of hers? and why couldn't she ask us herself? She thinks that its all Grants funiture coz he works so if we split up he should get it all (we used the bb to buy it) she is a sahm too so she doesn't work (I mean a proper paying job) so does that mean nothing in the house is hers?

She is just a nosey so and so and I'm sick of it.

Also she called child protection on me when Hayley was about 3 months or so and told them a whole heap of bs (I know it was her coz DHS told me themselves and she has also done this to other ppl)
Grant and I went to the Gold Coast last year for new years and told other SIL to take pictures of our house to show DHS (she didn't do it though).

Has this happened to anyone else? How did you deal with it?

BTW, my other SIL doesn't speak to her cos she called DHS on her too.

[poodysmum]

How rude!
Your husband needs to tell his sister to mind her own business. Doesnt she have anything better to do with her time than to pry into your private life?
What a pathetic woman
I really feel for you-poor thing. BIG hugs

Alli

[mum2bubba]

How rude!
Your husband needs to tell his sister to mind her own business. Doesnt she have anything better to do with her time than to pry into your private life?
What a pathetic woman
I really feel for you-poor thing. BIG hugs

Alli

Yes, she has too much time on her hands, shes a sahm to 4 kids so she should focus on them instead.
Also Grant doesn't say anything to her, I complain to him about all the sh!t she pulls and he just tells me to ignore her. Well how can I ignore her when she calls DHS and tells his ex everything that goes on between us she (the ex) lost the right to know about Grant's life when she dumped him someone else.

[Stretchmark Diva]

Why does your beast of a SIL know any personal information about you at all? I assume she has been cut off by you and DH? If someone maliciously called DHS on me for no reason, that would be it for me. Heck, if my SIL was feeding information to my DH's ex, I would cut her off then too!

Cut off = no information. No phone calls, no letters, no birthday cards, no visits, no nothing. Change your phone number, only give it to people you trust on the proviso it does NOT get given to evil SIL. Get a PO box. Block her emails.

Your life will be so much more peaceful without her drama! And she can't gossip about you if she doesn't know anything about you....

[jessgray]

is it possible someone is feeding her info even if you arent telling her?
i had a freind who i cut off (long story ) and found out my sister was feeding thsi ex friend info and gave out my addres to this person nd my home number!
i wuld have a chat to your sil or even email her be clam and explain how you feel

[mum2bubba]

Why does your beast of a SIL know any personal information about you at all? I assume she has been cut off by you and DH? If someone maliciously called DHS on me for no reason, that would be it for me. Heck, if my SIL was feeding information to my DH's ex, I would cut her off then too!

Cut off = no information. No phone calls, no letters, no birthday cards, no visits, no nothing. Change your phone number, only give it to people you trust on the proviso it does NOT get given to evil SIL. Get a PO box. Block her emails.

Your life will be so much more peaceful without her drama! And she can't gossip about you if she doesn't know anything about you....

We haven't spoken to her since March last year (neither has my other SIL coz of the same sh!t) she gets away with too much and I for one am sick if it, the unfortunant thing though is my MIL is Grant's boss, its bad because she will tell my SIL things (like she told her that I had a miscarriage) so even though we don't speak to her (SIL that is) someone else will tell her things, then she tells Grant's ex. I just don't know who to trust these days, you tell someone something in confidence then 5 minutes later the whole world knows. Also the family is trying to get me to forgive and forget (apparently she is sick or something) but while I'm sick of holding a grudge theres another part of me that doesn't trust her, she lies about everything under the sun.