I thought the same as the others - it's 'your' house so you have to pay all the bills yet he refuses to leave? So which is it, he needs to decide. I'm a WAHM and if my husband told me I just sat on my a@se he'd wear his dinner.
I know we often say the mother and child shouldn't have to leave, and you shouldn't. But if he's refusing to leave I would be while you still have some money. Stop paying all the bills and use the $$ for a bond. He's verbally, financially and emotionally abusive. He's a bad father on several levels. He doesn't respect your role. He doesn't contribute financially. He's controlling and vindictive.
Run, don't walk from this relationship Babybee, it's not going to get better, only worse, and you know that. And what happens when your mat leave runs out? You are going to be a lazy c that doesn't earn any money either.