So I thought I'd update on what I ended up getting if anyone else stumbles across this post looking for advice
I bought nyx hd foundation,
Nyx matte but not flat pressed powder and models prefer setting spray, I wanted the nyx Matte finish but the Priceline I went to didn't have any.
I used these with some of my younique primer and I'm actually super impressed with how well they held up at work yesterday, 9 hours in I still looked really presentable, 12 hours in it was still Ok.
That setting spray is awesome, hardly any transfer with it.
Thanks for the advice ladies