How are you going @Molly19 . I've been thinking of you.
I'm so sorry you've found yourself here. We went through this exact scenario late last year. We were induced at 22 weeks plus 3 days. We got the diagnosis on a Friday and met with genetics, thought about it over the weekend decided on Monday and were admitted Tuesday morning. I was induced using just oral tablets. Laboured for about 8 hours, but only the last 2 hours were bad labor pains. I had fentanyl through a drip. He was born breech, and still alive. He was unconscious though and looked so very peaceful. He passed quite quickly. Heartfelt came in and took lots of photos and we dressed him in a tiny gown. We had a cold and he roomed in with us over night.whilst his disabilities were obvious and confronting, he looked just like me and the same as any other baby, just tiny and his eyes were still fused closed. What state are you in? Some you will not be required to register the birth in. A year on it still hurts like hell, we suffer so he never had too. It's not much of a choice really. Sending you hugs love and strength. Pm me if you'd like to know about a private online support group specific to medical terminations.
Thank you all again so so much for your support.
Ella Chloe was born sleeping 18.10.16 'Our love for you will never cease, you'll forever be our missing piece'
We have been overwhelmed with the amount of support we have received from loved ones and strangers alike.
Sorry for your loss Molly. All she knew was love, everyday.
I am so sorry for the loss of your little Ella. I'm glad you were in contact with Heartfelt, that is a beautiful photo. It truly is a pain like no other so I am glad you have lots of support around you. There is a private chat thread on here for mums who have lost their precious bubs, if you would like to join us I can send you the details.
Thinking of you and your gorgeous girl x
I'm so so sorry for your heart breaking loss. I can't imagine the hurt your heart and soul must be going through. your little girl is so beautiful, Ella is such a pretty name.
I'm so sorry you're dealing with one of the hardest things anyone can go through. Ella will always be a part of your family. Speak her name often. You will get through this xxx
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