My grand MIL died recently and DD has taken it really badly. She was ok until the funeral which was a few weeks ago and now she often cries and says she doesn't want Nanny Claire to die. I'm wondering if anyone has any ideas on how to make this easier for her. We are atheists so I don't really want to tell her she's in heaven. I'm not really sure what to tell her to make her feel better. Nanny Claire was 99 and her health was really deteriorating so while it's sad she's gone, she had a wonderful full life and went before she was in too much pain or lost too much quality of life. I've told DD that, but she misses her so much. I just don't know how to make this easier for her.