ahould anything be said to the sister of an extreme abuser.
re a very dangerous abusive past situation.the abuser like many abusers has gained friends and support over the years by deliberately creating lies to turn naive people against the victim and gain their friendship and support. nothing was ever said over the years to his family despite the victim being friends with his family before meeting and marrying the brother and they knew what an upright person she was, and this has never changed but their view was time and again muddied of the truth by the abuser their brother. should anything ever be said to the abusers sister, eg to be careful never to pass on any info about the victim to the brother not good or badand to question whatever he has said over the years about the victim as he says many untrue things deliberately to turn people against the victim and onto his sideand that triats such as con artistry and rage dont dissappear and could be an issue in the future. So care must be taken with these 2 thingswould this help the victim or harm them as people get very angry when victims say anything, they accuse them of just gossiping or worse and it could stir up trouble. so should she just slink away all her life or should she ever say anything that mind put doubt in their mind about the lies that were told about her over the years. they knew she was always sincere, hard working kind before the marriage and during the marriage and that he was lying and rageful. but the truth has been muddied. will anything be gained re good name or protection by saying anything or will it just stir trouble and possibly danger.