We do bday gifts for our parents, siblings and BILs (between us currently 4 siblings, 2 BILs), kids (currently 2 nieces & a nephew). Mothers and Father's Day for our parents. All at $100 each. Xmas in my family is a Kris Kringle at $250 from me, $250 from hubby. We also still buy my parents a present from our daughter for xmas as they do so much for us, usually $100 combined for them. So we spend a lot on presents! But thankfully we're all quite comfortable and have good jobs so it isn't a strain.