The lack of communication is the concerning thing. I would personally look into FDC if it were me - but I know that a daycare centre environment is just not right for me and my kids. It's not the thing for everyone & I know if I had to return to work, I would 100% choose FDC over a centre. But thays just me, and different things suit different people. I hope you can find something quickly that is a better fit for you and DS.