Do you ever lie down for 10-15 minutes or so with your little one when you put them to bed?
Since my now 4yo has gone into a big boy bed I have started to lie down in his bed with him to sing him some songs. I do this because I'm tired and standing up hurts my feet plus he he has a loft bed and I couldn't see him if I sit on a chair.
It seems like my partner has a problem with me doing this. He feels that it's disempowering. I don't really understand this because I don't lie in my ds's bed until he goes to sleep. I leave while he is awake...and, my ds seems to think it's really fun for me to lie there for a little while.
Maybe I'm not thinking about this very clearly.
Anyone else have any insights on this?